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7 habits

1. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Stephen Covey’s
The 7 Habits of
Highly Effective People
Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
Presentation by:
Dr. Scott Kunkel
Associate Professor
University of San Diego

2. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Personality and Character Ethics
•Personality Ethic (post WWI)
–Personality, public image, attitudes &
behaviors, skills and techniques, quick fixes
•Character Ethic (pre WWI)
–Integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance,
courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity,
modesty, the Golden Rule
–Not just “What do I want?” but “Why do I want
it?”

3. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
The Power of a Paradigm Shift
•What is a paradigm?
•What is a paradigm shift?
•My paradigm shift --caring vs. enabling
•Near-death experiences frequently cause
people to experience a paradigm shift.
•Not all paradigm shifts are instantaneous --
some happen gradually over time.

4. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Will the left side of the room
please stand and face the back of
the room
I will show the right side of the room
a picture for ten seconds and ask you
to remember what you saw

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University of San Diego

6. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Will the right side of the room
please stand and face the back of
the room
I will show the left side of the room a
picture for ten seconds and ask you
to remember what you saw

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University of San Diego

8. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Will both sides of the room
please sit back down
I will show you a picture for ten
seconds and ask you to describe what
you saw

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University of San Diego

10. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
What did you see?

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University of San Diego

12. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
The Seven Habits
Knowledge
(what to, why to)
Desire
(want to)
Skills
(how to)
Habits

13. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Private Victories
The First Three Habits

14. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Habit # 1
Be Proactive

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University of San Diego
Freedom
to
Choose
Stimulus Response
Independent
Will
ConscienceImagination
Self-
Awarness

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University of San Diego
Circle of Concern
Circle of Influence

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University of San Diego
Circle of Concern
Circle of Influence

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University of San Diego
Habit # 2
Begin with the
End in Mind

19. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Alternative “Centers”
•Spouse centered
•Family centered
•Money centered
•Possession centered
•Pleasure centered
•Friend/Enemy centered
•Church centered
•Self centered
•Principle Centered
Write a Personal Mission Statement

20. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Habit # 3
Put First Things
First

21. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Time Management Matrix
Not Important
Urgent Not Urgent
I II
III IV
Activities:
Crises
Pressing Problems
Deadline Driven Projects
Activities:
Interruptions, some calls
Some mail, some reports
Some meetings
Proximate, pressing matters
Popular activities
Activities:
Prevention, PC activities
Relationship building
Recognizing new opportunities
Planning, recreation
Activities:
Trivia, busy work
Some mail
Some phone calls
Time wasters
Pleasant activities

22. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Public Victories
The Second Three Habits

23. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Habit # 4
Think Win/Win

24. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Six Paradigms of Human
Interaction
•Win
•Win/lose
•Lose/Win
•Lose/Lose
•Win/Win
•Win/Win or No Deal

25. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Habit # 5
Seek First to
Understand,
Then to be
Understood

26. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Habit # 6
Synergize

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University of San Diego
Renewal
The Seventh Habit

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University of San Diego
Habit # 7
Sharpen the Saw

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University of San Diego
Physical
Exercise, Nutrition
Stress Management
Social/Emotional
Service, Empathy
Synergy, Intrinsic Security
Mental
Reading, Visualizing
Planning, Writing
Spiritual
Value Clarification
& Commitment, Study
& Meditation

30. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel
University of San Diego
Stephen Covey’s
The 7 Habits of
Highly Effective People
Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
Presentation by:
Dr. Scott Kunkel
Associate Professor
University of San Diego