Ansh Mehra Communication-masterclass.pdf

Communication Master Class by Ansh Mehra, Youtuber, Influencer

1. Life Improvement Series
How to speak
confidently
Masterclass by Ansh Mehra

2. 1
Focus on the offer, not on the pitch
Just being a smooth talker isn’t the fix
2
Whatever I say is not the only truth
I speak from my experience and not from universal facts
3
This topic is huge. It takes time
You need 4-6 months to see major changes in just one aspect.
Before we go ahead

3. 1
Text / Email - Asynchronous
WhatsApp / DMS - Grammar, Vocabulary and Patience
2
On Call - Verbally
Tonality + Clarity + Instinct to judge opposite side
3
In Person - Verbally
Body Language + Tonality + Clarity + Charisma
Levels of Conversation

4. Each Level can have either
1
Generic Conversation
Meet someone new or known at a party/event
2
Pitch
You need to influence someone to do something
3
Argument
You need to make someone understand your point
This systematic grouping is important for clear understanding

5. 6 ways to boost
In Person Generic Conversational skills
1
Fixing Common Fears
Why we end up with resistance.
2
Improving First Impressions
They will listen if they perceive you as valuable
3
Tonality, Vocabulary & Pace
Basics of speaking clearly
4
Learning Social Dynamics
Navigating physical social groups
5
Mental Models for Charisma
How to make someone like you
6
Resources & Roadmap
50 Day upskilling plan for improving
Module 4 is where I cover real tactics. More than conversation, you need to change perception.

6. 1
Fixing Common Fears
Why we end up with resistance.
Insecurity about appearance
When you feel you don’t look good enough
Fear of looking stupid
When you don’t fully know what you’re saying
Lack of practice in speaking
You are too shy and can’t reach out
Learn about style, muscle and skin
It takes time but it’s worth it
Be good at your skills
Conversational wealth, otherwise just listen
Only practice helps.
Start with the same gender, same age.
Then change each variable as you learn.

7. Let me know in the comments
Which fear holds you back the most.

8. 2
Improving First Impressions
They will listen if they perceive you as valuable
Decide who you want to impress
Become top 1% is impressed by different things
Improve choice of clothes
Well ironed, clean, enough contrast.
Get introduced by someone else
Get more trust. Ensure that someone is right.
Skin and Hair
Facewash, Clean Tissue/Covers, GK Hair Serum, Listrine, Perfume
Roll On, Beard, Longer Hair, Bare Anatomy Dandruff Shampoo
Become valuable and successful
Their tolerance levels would rise
Have social media presence
People will see your work before they even meet you

9. 3
Tonality, Vocabulary & Pace
Basics of speaking clearly
Start with clear writing
Use ChatGPT/Grammarly Pro
English helps impress people outside India
We’ve released a detailed video on this
Practice in front of Camera
Not Mirror. You need to playback.
Think School’s Communication
In case you want to invest in a proper course
Practice accent, flow and tonality
Replicate movie dialogues, speeches, songs
Speak with fewer words and give pauses
Clear is better than clever.

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To regularly upskill yourself

11. 4
Learning Social Dynamics
Navigating physical social groups
Cut the convo if it’s not flowing
Avoid “What else” or “Pauses”. Just exit.
Conversational threading
Learn this from Podcasts or reply with “Makes sense” and “Correct”
Vibe > Interest > Convo
You cannot force the vibe match
Look at everyone in the group while talking
That shows you know how to welcome
Larger Group ∞ Lesser Time
In 1:1, stick to 45-60s replies.
Introduce the new person next to you
So you broaden the nexus

12. 5
Mental Models for Charisma
How to make someone like you
Halo Effect
Be in the right place with right kind of people
“I’ll tell you a secret/tip”
Give them something that they feel is close to you
Compliment mutuals
They will find you more friendly and appreciative
Always go with a gift with a letter
Never go to someone’s house empty handed
Balance of competency and warmth
Too warm looks soft. Too competent looks rude.
Never ask for favours/numbers early
Prefer connecting on Instagram first.

13. 6
Resources & Roadmap
50 Day upskilling plan for improving
Charisma on Command
For social skills and more
Exercise and focus on style
Everyone judges a book by its cover
Think School YT Channel
for communication and teaching
How to glow up + speak English
Both videos are very important
Celebrity Interviews / Speeches
Lots can be learn from them
Become valuable to the market
Everybody wants what they can’t have. Be the one
they cannot have and you’ll always get attention.

14. Quick Revision
What all we learnt today
1
Fixing Common Fears
Why we end up with resistance.
2
Improving First Impressions
They will listen if they perceive you as valuable
3
Tonality, Vocabulary & Pace
Basics of speaking clearly
4
Learning Social Dynamics
Navigating physical social groups
5
Mental Models for Charisma
How to make someone like you
6
Resources & Roadmap
50 Day upskilling plan for improving
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