Forgiveness Principle 6: Evaluate all my relationships. Offer forgiveness to those who have hurt me and make amends for harm I’ve done to others, except when doing so would harm them or others “Happy are the merciful. Happy are the peacemakers” (Matthew 5:7 and 5:9)
Forgiveness Step 8: We made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all. Do to others as you would have them do to you. (Luke 6:31)
Forgiveness Step 9: We made direct amends to such people whenever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the alter and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the alter. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and off your gift. (Matthew 5:23 - 24 )
Forgiveness Refresh: Principle 1 Realize I’m not God; I admit that I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and that my life is unmanageable. Pretending the hurt isn’t there… Won’t solve your problems They dress the wound of my people as though it were not serious. ‘Peace, peace,’ they say, when there is no peace (Jeremiah 6:14)
Have you accepted Forgiveness ? God puts people right through faith in Jesus Christ. God does this to all who believe in Christ, because there is no difference at all: everyone has sinned and is far away from God’s saving presence. (Romans 3:22-23) God’s
Have you forgiven who have hurt you? Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (Romans 12:17 - 18) Others
Have you Forgiven ? “Come, let’s talk this over,” says the Lord; “no matter how deep the stain of your sins, I can take it out and make you as clean as freshly fallen snow. Even if you are stained as red as crimson, I can make you white as wool! If you will only let me help you, if you will only obey, then I will make you rich!” (Isaiah 1:18-19) Yourself
Have you Forgiven ? Question: God forgives you. How can you withhold forgiveness from yourself? We must forgive ourselves before we can honestly forgive others. Yourself
Have you Forgiven ? “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And He said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the great and foremost commandment. The second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ Upon these two commandments hang the whole Law and the Prophets.” (Matthew 22-36:40) Yourself
Leader’s Focus Question What hurts from a past relationship are you still hanging on to and how can you let go of them?