Family is one of the primary places where people are taught
about gender, gender roles and gender socialization (Risman
1998)
Gender is learned at a young age and begins within the family.
A group consisting of
parents and their children
United by marriage, blood
or adoption
There are many different
family structures
Family genders its members
and is organized along
gendered lines
Family is an institution
Used to refer to feminine and masculine social expectations in a
family based on a person’s sex
Gender Roles
-There are many stereotypes we are expected to
follow
-Society expects children to follow gender norms
For a girl to play with a truck?
What makes it wrong…
Or a boy to play with
dolls?
2 parent
Single parent
Extended
Blended
Stepfamilies
LBGT
Child-free families
Non-biological families
of choice
Family Structures
Stereotyped that is the
“norm” in family
structure
Consists of 2 heterosexual
parents legally married
carrying out in separate
masculine and feminine
roles
Nuclear Family?
The nuclear family is self-
sufficient when there are
other factors that influence
it; such as work or religion
Some marriages end in
divorce
Children will live in
blended families
Families will have no kids
under the age of 18
There is an assumption
that the nuclear family is
the “normal” family
Nuclear family is a myth
Parent-child
communication
Children’s
communication
Couple
communication
Communicating in family
Parents influence gender identity before the child is born
Primary function is to teach and maintain culture norms
Gender norm and roles
Gendered role scripts
Demand to abide by a specific role
Parent-child Communication
Siblings influence gender
Parents tend to give children gender specific toys
Children gender/sex themselves
Child Communication
Studies show that girls with older
brother tend to have masculine
identities
Gender specific toys
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Domestic Communication
Household work
Studies show men tend to
do less house work than
woman
Women and men have
increased involvement in
child care
Conflict Communication
Demand/withdrawal
pattern
One partner wants change
through complaining or
criticizing, the other partner
does not and withdraws by
avoiding or leaving the room
Couple Communication
- Parents are the most influential to their children
-Children are likely to model behaviors of who they admire
Gender Role Socialization
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As people construct their own
identities, they make more of an
effort to do so to make them more
socially acceptable
Social Accountability
Single parents
Play important role in larger society
Engaged Fatherhood
More emotionally involved
Same Sex Parents
No significant difference in children raised in
heterosexual families
Raising Transgendered Children
Accepting more diverse gender identities
Thriving Diverse Family Structures Today
*The key to all of these is to
provide a loving, supportive
and stable life for the children
Parents take turns with
housework
Ex. cooking and cleaning
Encourage the child to do a
variety of activities
Sports, theater etc.
Gender inclusive toys
Compliment a range of
attributes
Educate thoughtfulness
Encourage a variety of friends
Not just same sex playmates
Gender Flexibility