Good And Bad Traits OF Friendship

Good and Bad points of friendship are discussed here.All the people have good and bad habits but we have to remove from our personality to be a gentleman in a society.

1. Important
Qualities a Good friend must have

10. Sharing is caring!
9. Trust and Loyalty.
8. Personal Adviser.
7. Listener.
6. Selfless – Always ready to
help!
5. Cheers you up
4. Knows you inside out.
3. Forgiving.

2. 2. Straightforward.
1. Not Judgmental at all.

10 Personality
Traits You Will Be Hated For

1. Arrogant – (Meaning =
unpleasantly proud and
behaving as if you are more
important than, or know
more than, other people).
We’ve all come across people
like this. When I think of the
arrogant people I have met it

3. seems to be mainly men that
display this trait. I have also
noticed that it seems to be a
class trait i.e. people who are
in the ‘upper class’ can be
arrogant with the ‘lower
classes’ (yes the class
system is still very much
embedded in UK culture).

2. Rudeness – (Meaning = not
polite; offensive or
embarrassing)
When I think of people who
are rude I tend to think of

4. shop sales assistants. I know in
America they are much more
customer focused but in the
UK customer service in shops
can be terrible. It’s especially
annoying when someone is
serving you and they are
talking to their friend about
what happened last night.

3. Domineering – (Meaning =
inclined to rule arbitrarily or
despotically; overbearing;
tyrannical: domineering
parents).

5. People who try to control
others is not a good trait at all.
Again this can often be seen in
the office and at home. It is a
form of abuse and can be hard
to spot sometimes. Of course
some people like to be
dominated (stop that!!) but
that is a choice, which is
different altogether.

4. Dishonesty – (Meaning =
not honest)
The trait that I abhor the
most in people! Everybody lies

6. whether it be a white lie or a
big ‘honestly I didn’t kill him’
lie. However when someone
lies constantly it is very
irritating and annoying
especially after you have
pointed out that you know
they are lying and they
continue with it. I am teaching
my boys that honesty is always
always always the best way
even if it feels difficult. If you
are honest all the time it will
lead to people trusting you

7. more and valuing your opinion
more.

5. Temperamental
– (Meaning = describes someo
ne whose mood tends to
change very suddenly)
Sorry ladies, but I have found
the most temperamental
people tend to be female,
especially if you’ve ever
worked in an office. I don’t
know if it’s the office air or
sick building syndrome but
people change as soon as they

8. enter their office of work. I
have seen me standing
chatting to someone outside
and then when I see them
again in the office their eyes
have turned blood red, little
horns have sprouted from
their heads and they talk like
they’ve just smoked 100
cigarettes “ what the F%*&
are you talking to me for”, at
that point I’m outta there.

6. Conceited – (Meaning =
Holding a high opinion of

9. yourself)
Much like arrogance and
just as annoying. It great to
have a good opinion of
yourself but when it is
displayed to others in a
manner as to make others feel
small it can be very
unpleasant.

7. Unreliable – (Meaning =
cannot be relied or depended
upon)
Another trait that can
extremely annoying. Again

10. we’ve all come across people
like this at work, at school, at
university, in fact every area of
life. We also know,
very quickly, not to rely on
that person for anything.
When reliability is not there
we tend to think they have
other traits related to this
such as lazy, disorganised,
selfish etc.

8. Dependent – (Meaning =
relying on someone or
something else for aid,

11. support, etc).
I am talking here about people
who are overly dependent
especially in relationships.
There is no bigger turn off for
a person than the man or
woman who seems to
depend on your relationship to
survive.

9. Pessimism – (Meaning = the
tendency to see, anticipate, or
emphasize only bad or
undesirable outcomes, results,
conditions, problems, etc)

12. How to lose friends quickly =
be pessimistic all the time. It’s
quite funny when you get
the grumpy guy in the office
who moans about everything
but deep down you know he
likes the world. However when
you get the person who moans
about their job, their house,
their life, their children, the
world and are serious about
it– how quickly do you run
away from them? It can
be very draining being around

13. people like this they literally
sap your energy.

10.
Condescending – (Meaning =
showing or implying a usually
patronizing descent from
dignity or superiority).
This is another trait which
riles me. Of course this is open
to interpretation in many
cases. On a few occasions I
have asked people if they are
meaning to sound
condescending and often they

14. are embarrassed and explain
that it was not their
intention, so it can be a tricky
one.

Conclusion
Do you recognise
yourself in the list above? If you
do it is easy to rid yourself of
these traits. The main trick is to
recognise it when it happens. As
soon as you recognise you can
change you. For the next few
days be aware of how you

15. interact with people around
you, listen to your language, be
aware of what you do when you
are listening, and be aware of
what you do when you are
talking.