Happy Married Life

How to be happy in married life?

1. HAPPY MARRIED LIFE PROF. S.P. IBRAHIM KHALEEL

2. GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER! From Day One get into the act of gently exploring each other’s likes, dislikes, preferences, attitude, character etc.

3. LOVE EACH OTHER Love each other unconditionally

4. CONCERN FOR EACH OTHER Express convincingly the true concern for each other.

5. SENSE OF SECURITY Never let down your partner. Not even giving the feeling of letting down.

6. KEEP EACH OTHER HAPPY Go the extra mile to keep your partner happy.

7. MUTUAL TRUST Always remain truthful to each other

8. MUTUAL RESPECTS Have utmost respect for each others feelings.

9. LISTENING TO EACH OTHER Improve your ability to listen to your partner.

10. PATIENCE IS AN IMPORTANT QUALIFICATION Always have patience

11. EXERCISE RESTRIANT Never judge anything or Jump to conclusions

12. ADJUSTABILITY Adjustability and adaptability are the essential requirements of happy and successful life. If we cannot adjust at home with our life partner and children where else?

13. SEX Pay apt attention to sex. Sex is as much essential as salt to food. It is bad to have excessive or nothing. Both of you prepare yourself with good books or videos which give healthy advice on SEX.

14. AVOID PORN Avoid pornography as far as possible. Do not experiment with the perverted sex shown on pornography. You can experiment any kind of positions with mutual comfort and mutual consent for mutual pleasure.

15. GIVE AND TAKE This world, our life and our happiness ALL revolve around a simple philosophy of “Give and Take.” Always be willing to give. Your share of taking will automatically come to you. Remember one cannot be always giving or always taking. Natural law of justice will always balance it. If we do give voluntarily with complete understanding it will give more happiness.

16. DO NOT FIND FAULT Do not find fault with your partner. Even if there is a blunder learn to condone it. Always compromise in the interest of mutual bonding. Your partner will take all efforts to avoid such mistakes in future.

17. GET YOUR CHILD AT THE EALIEST Giving birth to a child gives more bonding between the husband and wife. You start doing everything for the sake of the new member of the family. You will cherish your relationship more than ever because of the child.

18. PLAN YOUR FAMILY’S FUTURE TOGETHER Plan everything for the family together. This is a more enjoyable part of married life. As your children grow older involve them also in whatever you plan for the family's future.

19. RESPONSIBILITY Though both partners have equal responsibility in everything they do for their family it is more so in upbringing the children. Contribute good citizens to the society, to the country and to the world.

20. THANK YOU HAPPY MARRIED LIFE