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1. WAYS OF SHOWING LOVE, ATTRACTION AND COMMTMENT Prepared by: Via Cerelle R. Villareal

2. BRAINSTORMING Think of the words associated in the word or on how to express “Love, Attraction, and Commitment”. The class will discuss the connections among the words given.

3. GUIDED QUESTION: 1. In your own perspective, what is love, attraction and commitment? 2. How can we show our love, attraction or commitment to someone? 3. How important this expression of love, attraction or commitment in our daily lives?

4. LEARNING OBJECTIVES A.Identify the different components of attraction, types of love and how it develops into commitment. B.Determine the importance of expressing attraction, love and commitment and, C. Share your experiences on how you show affections toward another person and couple.

5. As proposed by anthropologist Helen Fisher, there are three brain systems of love: lust, attraction, and attachment. Each also involves different neurochemicals in the brain. Depending on a person, a love relationship can start in any of these three. I.BIOLOGICAL MODEL OF LOVE

6. LUST refers to an urge or desire that motivates us to partake in sexual activity. It is also described as sex drive associated primarily with estrogens and androgens.

7. is described as the love-struck phase. It involves focusing attention on a particular person. Many factorsinfluence attraction such as physicalattractiveness, proximity, similarity, and reciprocity. ATTRACTION

8. PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS Physical Attractiveness is one of the primary determinants of romantic attraction. Most people prefer whom they consider physically attractive especially in the early stages of dating. Proximity can be explained when people tend to get attracted to people who are geographically closer to them. They are more likely to develop feelings of mutual familiarity with the people who live close to them. For example, being attracted to a classmate since you regularly see the person. PROXIMITY

9. SIMILARITY Similarity is when people choose partners whom they find similarities such as social class, religious beliefs, and education. It explains when two people share more attitudes and opinions, the more they will want to do the same activities. As a result, they would create a strong bond between them. Reciprocity means people like others who like them back. The more a person is liked by someone, the more he/she behaves in ways that promote mutual feelings of liking. RECIPROCITY

10. Attachment is a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to another. Usually, long-lasting commitments are exchanged when people are attached even across time and space ATTACHMENT

11. TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE There are three main components of love as suggested by Robert Stenberg (1988). These are intimacy, passion, and commitment. The relationships vary and depend on the presence or absence of each of these components.

12. INTIMACY PASSION Intimacy is an interpersonal relationship that involves physical or emotional intimacy. It is characterized by closeness, connectedness, and boundedness. Passion is described as an intense emotion towards a person. It is also shown as compelling interest for someone. Like having a desire to spend time with a person most of the time. TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE

13. COMMITMENT Commitment is an act of deciding to consistently fulfill and live by agreements with another person. Wherein, the values of integrity and respect are evident in the relationship. Ways to express commitment in a relationship is showing loyalty and conveying honesty. TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE

14. THE COMBINATION OF THE THREE (3) COMPONENTS CAN PRODUCE EIGHT (8) TYPES OF LOVE.

15. THEORY LOVE STYLES Ancient Greeks studied love and giving each type a Greek name. Lee (1973) offers a theory derived from an analysis of writings about love through centuries.

16. Usually runs deep in true friendship. It occurs without romantic attraction between friends or family members. It is also called brotherly love when both people share the same values and respect. It can be shown by engaging in deep conversation, exchanging beliefs and imperfections, being open and trustworthy, and being supportive in difficult times. PHILIA – AFFECTIONATE LOVE

17. Described as a mature love that develops over time. To reach this relationship commitment and efforts are needed. With the partnerby your side, you are "standing in love" instead of "falling in love". It is expressed by strengthening the bond, seeking and showing effort with your partner, and choosing to work with your partner. PRAGMA – ENDURING LOVE

18. A naturally occurring love rooted in parents and children, as well as best friends. It’s an infinite love built upon acceptance and deep emotional connection. It usually flows between parents and children or childhood friends. Ways to show this love are sacrificing one’s time, self or personal pleasures, showing gratitude and quickly forgiving. You also share memorable and impactful moments. STORGE – FAMILIAR LOVE

19. Characterized by personal infatuation and physical pleasure. It is a passionate love displayed through physical affection. In this case, admiration is focused on someone's physical body. Hence, the couple engages in physical touch such as hugging and kissing even if it not appropriate yet. EROS – ROMANTIC LOVE

20. is a child-like and flirtatious love found in the beginning. This type of love consists of teasing and playful motives between two people. It is shown by having fun together. LUDUS – PLAYFUL LOVE

21. as named is described as obsessiveness or madness over love. It leads to unwanted jealousy or possessiveness. To avoid it, obsessive or possessive behavior must be recognized to be properly addressed. One should learn to focus on oneself more than another person. MANIA – OBSESSIVE LOVE

22. Having a healthy “self-compassion” towards one’s self. It is when you recognizeyour self-worth and don’t ignoreyour personal needs.Self-love begins with acknowledging your responsibility for your well-being. PHILAUTIA – SELF LOVE

23. Selfless Love is the highest love to offer. It is an empathetic attitude of love. It is given without any expectations of receiving anything in return. It is considered unconditional love. It is expressed by helping the other person improve his life. AGAPE - SELFLESS LOVE

24. DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY QUESTIONS? Raise your hand, please

25. In this activity, students are going to express their best ways of expressing their attraction love or showing commitment to someone by creating mini poster. The mini poster should be done on a short bondpaper and must showcase their ways of expressing affections to develop a long-term relationship. The student will write a brief explanation of their work at the back of their mini poster. ACTIVITY: MINI POSTER

26. RUBRIC FOR MINI POSTER

27. ASSESSMENT: Multiple Choice: Choose the letter of the best answers. Write the chosen letter on a separate sheet of paper. 1. It is an act deciding to consistently fulfill and live by agreements made with another person, entity, or cause, and where the values of integrity and respect serve as a guide to one's behavior and thinking. A. Passion C. Commitment B. Attraction D. Attachment 2. It is a type of love named after ancient Greeks that is considered having a healthy “self-compassion” love towards one’s self. A. Philia C. Agape B. Storge D. Philautia

28. ASSESSMENT: 3.Which of the following influence the person to get attracted to people whom they find similarities with each other? A. Physical Attractiveness C. Similarity B. Proximity D. Reciprocity 4.Which of the following Ancient Greek’s types of love is recommended for your family? A. Storge,Agape, Philia C. Pragma Eros, Ludus B. Storge,Eros, Philia D. Storge, Philia, Philautia 5.Which of the following influences the person to get attracted to others whom they find physically attractive? A. Physical Attractiveness C. Similarity B. Proximity D. Reciprocity

29. ASSESSMENT: 6.It is described as the love-struck phase which is part of lust because it involves focusing our attention on a particular person or desire. A. Passion C. Commitment B. Attraction D. Attachment 7.Which of the following is NOT an element of a healthy relationship? A. One person makes all the decisions B. Trustone another C. Understanding D. Mutual respect 8.According to Robert Stenberg, it is the type of love that is characterized by the intimate, non-passionate type of love with a long term commitment. A. Consummate C. Romantic B. Companionate D. Fatuous

30. ASSESSMENT: 9.It is a type of love named after ancient Greeks that is considered as selfless or unconditional love. A. Philia C. Agape B. Storge D. Philautia 10.Which of the following Ancient Greek’s types of love is recommended for friendship? A. Storge,Agape, Philia C. Pragma Eros, Ludus B. Storge,Eros, Philia D. Storge, Philia, Philautia 11.According to Robert Stenberg, it is the type of love that is an ideal and complete form of love with intimacy, passion and commitment. A. Consummate C. Romantic B. Companionate D. Fatuous

31. ASSESSMENT: 12.Which of the following is a good sign of an unhealthy relationship? A. You feel good about yourself when you’re around the other person. B. There is communication, sharing, and trust. C. You feel fear in your relationship. D. You feel safe to share secrets. 13. Which of the following is a good sign of a healthyrelationship? A. Your friend is happy when good things happen to you. B. You are afraid of your friend's temper. C. Your friend threatens to hurt you D. Your friend makes fun of you. 14.Which of the following is appropriate to do in expressing your attraction to your significant other? A. Kissing B. Smiling at each other C. Intimateactivities D. Invading personal space

32. ASSESSMENT: 15.This refers to the close connections between people, formed by emotional bonds and interactions. A. Personal Development C. Intimacy B. Personal Relationship D. Commitment

33. ANSWER KEY 1. C 2. D 3. C 4. D 5. A 6. B 7. A 8. B 9. C 10. A 11. A 12. C 13. A 14. B 15.B

34. THANK YOU for your attention