PER DEV Knowing and understanding oneself during middle and late.pptx

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1. KNOWING AND UNDERSTANDING ONESELF DURING MIDDLE AND LATE ADOLESCENCE

2. ACTIVITY Self-Concept Inventory

3. Take a look at your own self-concept and answer the following self concept inventory in your journal. Give yourself a rating using the scale: 0 = very weak; 1 = weak; 2 = somewhat weak or somewhat strong; 3 = strong; 4 = very strong ____1. I have a strong sex appeal. ____2. I am proud of my physical figure. ____3. I am physically attractive and beautiful/handsome. ____4. I exude with charm and poise. ____5. I am easy to get along with.

4. ____6. I can adjust to different people and different situations. ____7. I am approachable; other people are at ease and comfortable with me. ____8. I am lovable and easy to be with. ____9. I am a fast learner, can understand with one instruction. ____10. I am intelligent. ____11. I have a special talents and abilities.

5. ____ 12. I can easily analyze situations and make right judgements. ___13. I can be trusted in any transaction. ___14. I have a clean conscience and carry no guilty feeling. ___15. I have integrity and good reputation. ___16. My friends and classmates can look up to me as a model worth emulating. ___17. I can express my ideas without difficulty.

6. ____18. I talk in a persuasive manner that I can easily get people to accept what I say. ____19. I can express my ideas in writing without difficulty. ____20. I am a good listener. ____21. I am emotionally stable and not easily rattled when faced with trouble. ____22. I am logical and rational in my outlook and decisions. ____23. I feel and act with confidence. ____24. I am a mature person.

7. Scoring: Copy this table on your journal. Write your score opposite each number and get the subtotal. Physical appeal 1. ____________ 2. ____________ 3. ____________ 4. ____________ Subtotal: Human Relations 5. _____________ 6. _____________ 7. _____________ 8. _____________ Subtotal: Intelligence 9. ______________ 10. _____________ 11. _____________ 12. _____________ Subtotal: Character 13. ___________ 14. ___________ 15. ___________ 16. ___________ Subtotal: Communications 17. ___________ 18. ___________ 19. ___________ 20. ___________ Subtotal: Maturity 21. ____________ 22. ____________ 23. ____________ 24. ____________ Subtotal:

8. HOW DO YOU PERCEIVE YOURSELF? Look at the results of your self-contract inventory and answer the following questions: 1. In what areas do you consider yourself strong with (score 14-16) or somewhat weak (score 10-13) and very weak (below 10). 2. Are there qualities you consider as your weakness but other people consider as your strength? What are these? Check with a partner. Example: A lady can say “I’m ugly” yet other consider her very charming. Or conversely, one can have the illusion of saying “ I am very intelligent or component” when most of hos ideas sound unreasonable or illogical to most to the people. There is need a big difference between what you see in yourself (real self-image) and what is projected in the eyes of the others ( your social image).

9. 3. How realistic is your self-image? 4. To what extent does it reflect your real-self?

10. BIG QUESTION: How can understanding yourself pave the way to self-acceptance and better relationship with others?

11. IMAGINE YOURSELF LOOKING INTO THE MIRROR.

12. Do you see your IDEAL SELF or your ACTUAL SELF?

13. it is the self that you aspire to be. IDEAL SELF

14. IDEAL SELF It is one that you hope will possess characteristics similar to that of a mentor of some other worldly figure.

15. It is the one that you actually see. ACTUAL SELF

16. ACTUAL SELF It is the self that has characteristics that you were nurtured or, in some cases, born to have.

17. The ACTUAL SELF is built on Self-Knowledge

18. it is derived from social interactions that provide insight into how others react to you. SELF-KNOWLEDGE