Relationship power point presentation in grade 11

personal development in grade 11

1. Module 9: Personal Relationships Unit III: Building and Maintaining Relationship

2. Objectives: Discuss understanding of teen-age relationship Express your ways of showing attraction, love and commitment Identify ways to become responsible in relationship

3. Four Pic. One Word Mechanics: There are pictures on the following slides. Determine what word exactly fit the four picture . The first person to answer each pictures within 15 seconds will be the winner.

4. I S T L S E N R F W V Y C I D A

5. I F Y D R Y I A E S M L T

6. What is Personal Relationship? It refer to close connections between people, formed by emotional bonds and interactions. Relationship are not static; they are continually evolving.

7. Four Kinds Of Personal Relationship God Family Friends Partnerships

8. Family The concept of family is an essential component in any discussion of relationships. It was defined as “two or more persons who are related by birth, marriage, or adoption and who live together as one household”(Bureau Of the Census).

9. Typical Characteristics Of Family: Support Mutual Trust Regular Interaction Shared Beliefs and Values Security Sense of Community

10. Friends A friendship is a close tie between two people that is often built upon mutual experiences, shared interest, proximity, and emotional bonding. Online friends don’t count toward close ties.

11. Partnerships Romantic partnerships are closely relationships formed between two people that are built upon affection, trust, intimacy, and romantic love. We experience this with only ONE person at a time.

12. Research Study On Relationship 1,110 adolescents assesed nine aspects of their relationships. Aspects include admiration, affection, companionship, conflict, instrumental aid, intimacy, nurturance, reliable alliance, and satisfaction with the relationship.

13. Result:

14. Importance of Personal Relationship Healthy relationship can help us: Live Longer. Deal with Stress. Be Healthier. Feel Richer.

15. Low social support may result health consequences such as: Depression. Decreased Immune Function. Higher Blood Pressure.

16. 25 Most Common Relationship Problems Affairs/ infidelity/ cheating. Sexual Issues Life Stages Traumatic/ Life-Changing Events Stress Bored Jealousness Blended Family Issue Violence

17. Regret about being married. Lack Of Responsibility Unrealistic expectation Addiction Social Media Lack Of support Manipulation Lack Of Communication One sided

18. Perceived lack of concern/Attentiveness Disappointment Depression Discipline/ deal with the Children Long term Stress Pregnancy

19. FOUR TYPES OF LOVE Ancient Greeks(Gregory 2012)say there are four types of love, as follows: 1. Philia 2. Eros 3 . Storge 4. Agape

20. 1. PHILIA is alove between friends, Philia connotes friendship.

21. 2. EROS is the sense of being in love. It is described as passionate love between two individuals. It transcends friendship. The affection is romantic in nature.

22. 3. STORGE i s affectionate love for the family. It is love that is shared naturally.

23. 4. Agape i s unconditional love. Agape suggests something divine, devotional, and acrificing. It describes a love that is pure and selfless.

24. TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE COMMITMENT INTIMACY PASSION

25. SEVEN TYPES OF LOVE Liking Companionate love Empty love Fatous love Infatuation Romantic love Consummate love

26. Nurture Your Relationship Connect with your Family Research states that longest-living people in the world have something in common: they put their families first. Practice gratitude Gratitude is one of the most accessible positive emotions, and its effect can strengthen friendships and intimate relationships.

27. Be compassionate Compassion is the willingness to be open to yourself and others. Accept others It is important to accept other person in the relationship Create rituals together In order to nurture the closeness and support of friendship , you have to make an effort to connect.

28. Spend the right amount of time together Researchers found that people who spend 6-7 hours per day socializing tend to be the happiest.

29. Ten Rules for Finding love and Creating lasting authentic Relationships. You must love YOURSELF first. Partnering is a choice, must nurture the relationship for it to thrive. Creating love is a Process.

30. Love Process I You You and I We

31. 4. Relationship provide opportunities to grow 5. Communication is essential. 6. Negotiations will be required. 7. Your relationship will be challenged by change. 8.You must nurture the relationship for it to thrive. 9. Renewal is the key to longevity. 10. You will forget all this the moment you fall in love.

32. Keeping Healthy Relationships Good relationships are fun and make you feel good about yourself. It will be one of the special part of your life. It take time and energy to develop. It should be based on respect and honesty.

33. In a healthy relationship, both partners: Are treated with kindness and respect Are honest with each other Like to spend time together Take an interest in things that are important to each other Respect one another’s emotional, physical and sexual limits Can speak honestly about their feelings

34. Love should never hurt Dating relationship can be wonderful. But then, you should always take care of yourself. Some students have suffered violence such as hitting, slapping or kicking from someone they date.

35. Type of Violence Sexual Abuse- involves any kind of unwanted sexual advance. Emotional Abuse- anything that harms your self-esteem or causes shame. Reminder: You deserve healthy, happy relationship. Abuse of any type is never okay.

36. Abuse and Assault Love should never hurt. But sometimes it does. Base on a research, 1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men were sexually assaulted. 1.5 million women and over 800,000 males are sexually assaulted and or physically abuse by their partner Abuse may take place in any kind of relationship—straight and gay, casual and long term, young and adult. If you have been mistreated, IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT.

37. Break the Silence: Stop the Violence Parents talk with teens about developing healthy, respectful relationships before they start dating.

38. How to Communicate None of us are a mind reader, therefore, we have to be open about our needs and expectations. Communicating openly on issues of sex and sexual health is important in romantic relationship. Think about your boundaries ahead of time and discuss them with a partner when you are not currently in a sexual mood.

39. So what’s to talk about? Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) -Infection that we may get through sexual intercourse. Possibility of Pregnancy Right time for Sex Boundaries

40. The decision of whether or not to have sex is up to you and you alone. Here are the questions we may want to sort out before getting “in the heat moment”. Am I ready to have sex? How am I going to feel after I have sex? Am I doing this for the right reasons? How do I plan to protect myself/my partner from sexually transmitted infection or pregnancy?

41. How am I going to feel about my partner afterwards? If you don’t feel right about something, SAY SO.

42. Some ways to show love Spend time with your partner. -Such as watching movies, hanging out and talk, roaming around etc. Kissing Hugging to touching

43. Talking to your Parents Most parents want to help their kids make smart decisions about sex. Other than that, someone else’ parent…a teacher or guidance counselor , coaches, aunt, uncle, neighbor or another adult you instinctively trust. Friends, internet and other media can’t give you everything you need.

44. REMEMBER : NOT EVERY PERSON YOUR AGE IS HAVING SEX.

45. Ways to avoid peer or date pressure: Hang out with friends who believes that it’s okay to NOT be ready for sex yet. Go out with group of friends rather than only your partner Introdduce you friends to your parents Invite your friends to your home Stick up for your friends if they are being pressured to have sex Think of what you would say incase someone tries to pressure you.

46. Always carry money for a telephone call or cab. Be ready to call your mom, dad or friend to pick you I you need to leave a date Never feel obligated to pay someone back Say NO and mean NO if that’s how you feel

47. Drug and Alcohol Survey says that 9 out of 10 people reported that their peers use alcohol or illegal drugs before sex atleast some time. The effect of drug and alcohol can make it hard to think clearly, let alone make the best possible decision about sex.

48. Basic Right in A Relationship The right to: Emotional Support Heard by the other and to respond Have own point of view Have acknowledged your feelings and experiences as real Live free from accusation and blame Live free from emotional and physical threat Live free from angry outbursts and rage Be respectfully ask than order

49. Developing patience, honesty, kindness and Respect. Patience - essential to a healthy relationship. Honesty - another essential quality. Kindness - extremely important to maintaining healthy relationship. Respect - cornerstone of all healthy relationship.

50. SUMMARY Relationship is not static; they are changeable. There are 3 kinds of Personal relationship: Family, Friends and Partnerships. Healthy relationships are vital component of health and wellbeing. Most of couples encountered relationship problems such as cheating, lack of support and communication etc.

51. To nurture relationship, one must connect with famiy,practice gratitude,learn to forgive,be compassionate,accept others and create rituals together. Putting family first makes the people healthiest and live-longest. Spending 6-7 hours per day socializing make the happiest person. The top and foremost rules for findinng love is TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.

52. Sexual Abuse- involves any kind of sexual abuse. Emotional Abuse- harms self-esteem Sexually Transmitted Infection (STIs)-infections that passes to one person to another through sexual contact. YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO if you aren’t ready to have sex. Patience, honesty, kindness and respect are among the basic rights of relationship.

53. “Squeeze that Quiz” 1.Kind of relationship that formed between 2 people built upon affection and romantic love. 2-5. 4 kinds of personal relationship 6-7 . Most common relationship problems. 8. Ways to nurture relationship. 9. Type of violence that involves unwanted sexual advance. 10. Anything that harms your self-esteem.

54. 11. The following are the importance of personal relationship except: a.Deal with stress b.feel richer c. decreased immune function 12. One of the most accessible positive emotion and it strengthen relationship. a. Acceptance b. Gratitude c. Compassion

55. 13.Which of the following is NOT an element of healthy relationship? a. Respect one another b. Open and honest Communication c. One person makes all decisions. 14. Love someone before loving yourself. 15. Relationships are not static.