Sphere of Relationship: I-WE-GOD - To Know Others

Brief Introduction into Agile Process Team - understanding oneself in terms of self, others and God; Responsibility for Environment; Living together with Virtues and Vices - right perspective in understanding one's emotions and of others in terms of family, community and personal relationship. Works of Mercy (spiritual and corporal) to relate with others and all.

1. Sphere of Relationship I – WE - GOD BOSCO ITS, 08-10-2022 Life Skill Sessions

2. Our Audience is… Community of Professionals – Process community Process is Law of Works Work is Practice not Labor Practice is Service

3. "We can no longer let the people in power decide what hope is. Hope is not passive. Hope is not blah blah blah. Hope is telling the truth. Hope is taking action." Greta Thunberg

4. To begin with … Is in between Generation Gap(s) Society

5. Social Generation Theory Traits Nutshell

6. Action Item - 1 Know your Generation and Others’ world war 1, world war 2, korean war, vietnam war, cold war, Web 1.0, Web 2.0, war on terror Instruction Now pickup a paper and scribble your note – write anything in your mind… during the session

7. Micro-Perspectives I: My Self WE: Others and My Self GOD: God, Everything and My Self An input in 11th standard (Tamil formative education)

8. Christian Psychology: What I am? I am made up of… BODY SOUL : ( Memory ) + ( Understanding ) + ( Will ) and SPIRIT ( Life itself ) <My Identity: Body + Soul + Spirit>

9. Body & Soul gets Corrupt… We help corrupting one’s own and others’ Soul… ( memory, understanding, will ) Through Relational, Social, Scientific, Media, Money Influences… For example… >>

10. Relation to Self (our small “ i ”) What is that TENSION or Hatred? ( கடுப்பு “ Kaduppu ”) I t could mean only these… Pride , Laziness , Gluttony , Lust , Avarice , Envy and Anger From c ontrary Moods, Emotions, Feelings, Passions… Called Vices. And Vices are…

11. Anger / Wrath Courtesy: Bing

12. Envy

13. Pride

14. Lust

15. Gluttony

16. Avarice / Greed

17. Laziness

18. Vicious Vice Circle… …which Virtues puts-off We are caught in World of Vices Click on image> Fall of Humanity FOUNDATIONAL SINS KNOWLEDGE : Adam–Eve knowing good and evil. LIFE : Cain introduced Death by murdering of Abel.

19. Rather, I can choose to be … OUR REAL WANTS

20. Our small “ i ” of Vices vs Virtues Vice (not wanted) Virtue (wanted) Lust காமம் / இச்சை Chastity கற்பு Gluttony பேருண்டி Temperance தன்னடக்கம் Greed பேராசை Charity  (or  Generosity ) பிறர் சிநேகம் / தாராள மனப்பான்மை Sloth சோம்பல் / மந்தம் Diligence சுறுசுறுப்பு Wrath வெகுளி / கோபம் Patience பொறுமை / சாந்தம் Envy பொறாமை Gratitude  (or  Kindness ) பரிவு Pride கர்வம் / இறுமாப்பு / செருக்கு / அகங்காரம் Humility தாழ்ச்சி https://www.catholictamil.com OUR REAL WANTS

21. Greater “I” – Cardinal Virtues Faith - பற்றுறுதி / விசுவாசம் Hope - நம்பிக்கை Love - அன்பு Gifts of the Holy Spirit (inner strength) Wisdom - ஞானம் Understanding - புத்தி / அறிவாற்றல் Knowledge – அறிவு Counsel – விமரிசை Fortitude – திடம் Piety – பக்தி Fear of God - தெய்வபயம் OUR REAL NEEDS Putting illustratively….

22. Wisdom

23. Understanding

24. Knowledge

25. Counsel

26. Fortitude

27. Piety

28. Fear of God

29. The Other Way Me as “Consciousness”

30. Psychoanalysts began thus…

31. Got into Complexities…

32. Personality is Inner Dialog

33. Computational Psychology? No Need.. No need for “behavioral therapies” Complex schematic understanding of Personalities – PERSONA Theorems of Emotions / Feelings / Actions Scientific Astrology – Human Forecasts New Age Motivational Powers… 17 th Century people (of Enlightenment Era ) followed on these “Spirituality” i.e. Psychology. Say No to… Cognitive Psychology too.

34. The WE “Others” and “Me” Everything begins with WE. Including Vices & Virtues Needs & Fulfilments

35. Meta-Perspectives “I” – the “Me” in three forms of Living Family Community Society Church - Communion (of living and dead)

36. WE is Family and/or Community

37. Sphere of Relationship Me, Family, Community and Society / Church ( to a catholic, Church is The Society ) “Not a sphere of selfishness ” (e.g. Business Community, Moneyed Family, Political Gang) “Not a sphere of exclusivism ” (e.g. religion, caste, race, color, economic class, culture) “Not sphere of scientific abstracts ” (e.g. “Generation Alpha)”

38. Families – Personal Co-existence basis of MARRIAGE Monogamous - a man married only one woman at a time Polygamous - a man marries many women & vice versa basis of AUTHORITY Matriarchal - mother is considered the head of the family Patriarchal - head of a family is a male basis of STRUCTURE Nuclear - there lives a husband along with his wife and children Extended - grandparents, parents, and children living together Source: https://www.sociologygroup.com/family-types

39. Communities – Social Co-existence Common binders – shared… Interest Actions Place Practice Circumstance Source: https :// www.thelifevirtue.com/types-of-community

40. Community: n number categories Family - Personal Community – Social / Public Place of Work (workplace community) Place of Worship (parish community) Place of Care/Service (professional) Sacred – Secular Divide (Church) in families Patron – Client Divide (Professional / State) in society There are no Sacred Families – failed experiments.

41. Situating Yourself in Society Belongingness To a Family To a Community Neighborhood World… Tells who you can be…

42. Family is… NOT abode of selfishness Food and Safe Home…(???) House of Care House of Human Development House of Memories House of Faith House of Hope House of Love Little Church - churchlet

43. We are Known & Not Known

44. Our Knowledge Window…

45. Inner Perspectives Deceive… கண்ணை நம்பாதே உன்னை ஏமாற்றும் நீ காணும் தோற்றம் But, Trusting CCTV/Mobile cameras True Lies பொய் உண்மைகள் Young – Old Woman

46. Wants vs Needs

47. Putting it “Simply”…

48. Urban Population… Human persons are weak and prone to do wrongs leading to evils... Over-populated Society, Culture and Environment… Consumer Economy: Food Items (inflated) Non-food items (not inflated)

49. For Example… Knowledge Knowledge Sharing is a key element freedom in service Knowing "Business Values" of service/product… For a proprietor, a thief, a competitor (dynamics - @#$@!!?)

50. Process Community Network and ICT leads to… Master-slave paradigm of past That's human nature . Communism CAN NOT overcome Master-Slavery Creates… Against society…

51. Process Community An Agile Sprint Can be… In Agile Process, there is no distributed roles and delegated responsibilities. Only Product Owner knows business values of an Idea / Requirement / Issue . IT is always of Waterfall Model.

52. Process Community Four to eleven “Scrum Team” becomes… Case for all WORK CULTURE Agile is the dirty face of the organizational hierarchy and control.

53. In short… Free Developer Team will become servile . Smallest field unit in combat situation (a group of soldiers, a corporal, a low-grade officer) Agile Team. கபடி குழு . Small group with little minds

54. Big Population – Gigantic Economy Benefits few…

55. Environment – Hour Glass War on Terror for “Planetary Control” (from Era of Wars) Fuel is IT. Systematized Human Intelligence Melting Glaciers Urbanizations Everyone’s problem Including all living beings

56. Not Salvation.. Personal and Community Babel Tower Ultimate Control / Awesome Personalities / Prosperity Growth

57. Our IT Work Outcomes: Wall-E

58. Destiny of Business Excellences…

59. Destiny Our Modern Humanity is LATE COMERS But We are of Participative Society.

60. God is all Life is our Response to God Life is Footprint of God Life is FROM God - living/good/almighty/unchanging Life’s Destiny is God – “we go back to God”

61. Community for… Humans Education to narrow all divides Empower right persons for right purposes Inclusive and Participatory Culture Technologies Minimalism Realistic Lifestyle Freedom Justice and Peace Care for neighbors

62. Completing I-WE-GOD God’s Wrath is JUSTICE God’s Grace is LOVE in Jesus Do not take God for granted. The Man you cannot Ignore.

63. Our Truly Daily Tasks

64. Physical Mercy Works Checklist Feed the Hungry Give drink to thirsty Clothe the naked Shelter the homeless Comfort the prisoners Visit the Sick Bury the dead

65. Psychological Mercy Works Checklist Teach the ignorant (educate) Correct Sinners Counsel those in doubt Console the sorrowful Bear wrongs patiently Forgive wrongs willingly Pray for the living and dead

66. Session Recap Me is formed by relationship with Others and God We are known, loved, cared, fulfilled Our humanity is participative Can’t take God for granted Life is to serve in freedom (checklists) Personal-Global Issues

67. My Follow-up # Action Status 1. I will k now our ge nerations (think of others) 2. I will Know family and community (living and serving) 3. I will have presence of mind - Self-awareness (of vices & virtues) 4. I will know of myself and what others know of me… ( Johari ) 5. I will discover my Self-actualizations (Vision-Mission in life) 6. Contribution to workplace – “Process community” (esteem) 7. I am involved in Global Issues (climate crisis, inequality, divides, violence, future shocks) 8. I will practice A cts of Mercy (Psychological; physiological) 9. I will not Impress, anymore (immorally).

68. After Thoughts For you to read when you get time.

69. Thank You © October 2022 BOSCO INFOTECH SERVICES Don Bosco Center, Guezou Nagar Athanavur, Yelagiri Hills, Tirupattur District Tamil Nadu 635853, INDIA Prepared by James VM ( [email protected] )

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