7 HABITS TO BE FORMED IN CHILDREN MAR 2023.pptx

If we want to properly nurture and educate our children, we must first educate and apply those principles to ourselves as parents.

1. 7 HABITS TO BE FORMED IN CHILDREN Prepared & Presented by: Yaseen Baig [phone] [email protected]

2. 1- CLEANLINESS & FITNESS Personal Hygiene Cloths and Body Daily exercise Avoid Junk Food Puberty issues (guidance) Purification 7 HABITS TO BE FORMED IN CHILDREN

3. 2 – SALAH & DUA Teaching the Salah, the way our beloved Prophet ( Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam ) has offered it. Establishing & Instilling 5 daily prayers & Sunan Rawatib ) Azkar Morning & Evening Azkar & Duas which are essential on day to day life 7 HABITS TO BE FORMED IN CHILDREN

4. 3 – DEVOTION TO QURAN 7 HABITS TO BE FORMED IN CHILDREN Learn Recitation & Intonation ( Makharij & Tajweed ) Memorize at least 1 Part ( Juz ) from the Quran Allocate a certain time each day for Quran reading. Learn the Arabic Language to understand Quran

5. 4 – CONFIDENCE & DETERMINATION 7 HABITS TO BE FORMED IN CHILDREN Developing the trust in Allah ( Tawakkul ) Encourage speaking the truth The environment and behavior of Parents Develop communication & call them with good names Praise, rewards, and recognition will boost their self-esteem. Be optimistic and avoid scaring them with failures.

6. 5 – AUSTERITY ( KIFAYAT Sha’ari ) 7 HABITS TO BE FORMED IN CHILDREN Effectively managing the resources Value of hard work & capacity Motivate them to pay sadaqah to the poor & needy ( relatives) Maximum 40% of Children Demands ( Desires) to be fulfilled Prioritizing needs over wants

7. 6 – REGULATIONS & GUIDELINESS IN THE 7 HABITS TO BE FORMED IN CHILDREN Weekly Meeting with family b. Set a collective guideline for sleeping and utilizing mobile devices and other gaming devices. (Week days & Weekends) c. Parents should first apply the guidelines for themselves d. Daily minimum half an hour for Quran and Islamic studies(Aqeedah, Seerah , Fiqh , etc.,) e. Be clear about your expectations and set a Specific goal(based on their capacity) Younger siblings will follow the rules by default

8. 7 – ROLE MODEL 7 HABITS TO BE FORMED IN CHILDREN Biography of Prophet Mohammed ( Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam ) Examples from Sahaba Kiram ( Radhi Allahu Anhum ) their acheivements Cultivate a thirst for knowledge & importance of Islamic studies

9. رَبِّ أَوْزِعْنِىٓ أَنْ أَشْكُرَ نِعْمَتَكَ ٱلَّتِىٓ أَنْعَمْتَ عَلَىَّ وَعَلَىٰ وَٰلِدَىَّ وَأَنْ أَعْمَلَ صَـٰلِحًۭا تَرْضَىٰهُ وَأَصْلِحْ لِى فِى ذُرِّيَّتِىٓ ۖ إِنِّى تُبْتُ إِلَيْكَ وَإِنِّى مِنَ ٱلْمُسْلِمِينَ ١٥ “My Lord! Inspire me to ˹always˺ be thankful for Your favours which You blessed me and my parents with, and to do good deeds that please You. And instil righteousness in my offspring. I truly repent to You, and I truly submit ˹to Your Will˺.” ( Surah Al Ahqaf 15 اے میرے پروردگار! مجھے توفیق دے 4  کہ میں تیری اس نعمت کا شکر بجا ﻻؤں جو تو نے مجھ پر اور میرے ماں باپ پر انعام کی ہے اور یہ کہ میں ایسے نیک عمل کروں جن سے تو خوش ہو جائے اور تو میری اوﻻد بھی صالح بنا، میں تیری طرف رجوع کرتا ہوں اور میں مسلمانوں میں سے ہوں. DAILY SUPPLICATIONS FOR PARENTS

10. رَبِّ ٱجْعَلْنِى مُقِيمَ ٱلصَّلَوٰةِ وَمِن ذُرِّيَّتِى ۚ رَبَّنَا وَتَقَبَّلْ دُعَآءِ ٤٠ My Lord! Make me and those ˹believers˺ of my descendants keep up prayer. Our Lord! Accept my prayers. اے میرے پالنے والے! مجھے نماز کا پابند رکھ اور میری اوﻻد سے بھی 1 ، اے ہمارے رب میری دعا قبول فرما رَبَّنَا ٱغْفِرْ لِى وَلِوَٰلِدَىَّ وَلِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَوْمَ يَقُومُ ٱلْحِسَابُ ٤١ Our Lord! Forgive me, my parents, and the believers on the Day when the judgment will come to pass.” اے ہمارے پروردگار! مجھے بخش دے اور میرے ماں باپ کو بھی بخش 1  اور دیگر مومنوں کو بھی بخش جس دن حساب ہونے لگے. DAILY SUPPLICATIONS FOR PARENTS

11. وَٱلَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَٰجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّـٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍۢ وَٱجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا ٧٤ ˹They are˺ those who pray, “Our Lord! Bless us with ˹pious˺ spouses and offspring who will be the joy of our hearts, and make us models for the righteous.” ) Al Furqan :74) اور یہ دعا کرتے ہیں کہ اے ہمارے پروردگار! تو ہمیں ہماری بیویوں اور اوﻻد سے آنکھوں کی ٹھنڈک عطا فرما اور ہمیں پرہیزگاروں کا پیشوا بن DAILY SUPPLICATIONS FOR PARENTS

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