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I have
just
experienced
my
first
Japa
nes
e
Valentine's
Day.
I hope
with
all
my he
ar
t th
at
I
never
have
the
misfort"!Jne
of
going
t hrou
gh it
again.
What I had
hoped
would
be
a da
y of
lov
e <1nd
sweet frienr\liness
turned
out
to
b e a C"a
p·u1
ese
"Love-Chocolate
Day",
and
ended
up
leaving
a ba,l
taste
in
my
mouth.
In
the
immortal
words of
a friend
( sorry
, J
forgot
who
it
was or
surely
I woul
d cre
di t him),
11
·;:hatever
holiday
the
nmericans
come up wit
h,
the
Japanese
just
rape
it.
" In
America,
Vl\
le!lt
ine's
Ihy
is
a day
when boys
and girl
s try
t o e xpress
their
feelings
for
ea
ch
other,
wh
en
m<>n
ar.d wome
n
and
husbands
and
wives
express
their
lo
ve for
each
other
in
special
ways, and
when fri
en
,is
tel
1 each
other
how happy
they
are
to
have
each
ether.
I n
Japan,
th;i.s sincere
holiday
has
been
degraded
to
a
variety
of
purposes
ran
ging
from just
selli
n£
chocolate
to
giving
the
female
a role
in
the
Ma
le
Â
dominated
dating
process
to
boys
and :_:
irl
s :il ayi
ne;
practical
jokes
and
making
fools
·of
eac
h other;
the
Japanese
hav~
again
made a folly
of
an
origÂ
inally
sweet,
sincere
holiday.
Valentine's
Day was introduced
t o Jap;i.n ir.
the
early
1970 ' s by
the
~lorinaga
candy
company to
boost
sales.
Judgi
ng
by
the
am
ount
of
chocolate
that
change
d hands
by
way of
our
message
- boxe s
alone,
I would
say
they
have
been
very
successful
i;Q,__
this
e~ea~.
· Valenti
ntt!.@~
X gives
Ja~ese
girl
s t he chance
t o te
l l the
boy
o f her
fan
cy
that
she
is
intereste
d;
:-
.e can
respo
nd0r. Nhite
Ja
y ,
!'.arch
14,
if
he
is
r.1utually
interestP.d.
This
is
rare
in
a male-dominatedsoc
ie
ty
c;uch
a s that
;vhich
unfortunately
exists
in
Jap;.n.
• ,Vhat I -sorely
r.1issed this
year
was the
friendly
sweetness
which
is
freely
expre
ss,;d
on
this
day
in
America.
The
,Tapanese
ha
ve replaced
this
with
a dual
mental
ity
of
givi
ng t c express
tl'."._:
€ love
and
giving
in
return
for
having
received;
acknowledeing
friendship
is
r.ot
part
of
,Japanese
Valentine's
Day.
The
.antics
of
3 of
the
4 women
's
dorms
were
especially
depressin
g . Two
donns
assigned
to
their
members names of
men's
dorm residents
to
whom
the
youn
g women
wrote
fake
Valentine
meiosages. A third
broke
into
the
men
's
dorms in
the
middle
of
the
ni
ght
and
secretly
pulled
trick;;
like
put
ting
ket
chup
on
doorknobs
and
newspaper
over
door\•:ays,
soaping
windows, and
the
like.
I'm
sorry,
gi
rls
,
but
this
kind
of
garbage
is
a far
cry
from what
Valenti
ne's
Day is
about!
Of
course
there
are
exceptions,
but
they
wer-
·
few and
far
hetween.
The Aerobics
Club's
ValenÂ
tine-gram
service
was a breath
of
sweet
a i r in
t h e
smog of
love-laden/thou
~htle
ss-r
etu
rn-r,ift
choco
Â
la
te.
A few
friends
made nice
~e,;
tures,
but
by
f::lr
the
most
beautiful
gift
I received
was a single
small'
wild
flower
placed
i n my
riessage
box
anonÂ
ymously.
That
flower,
the
epitome
of
si
11cerjty
,
is
the
most
wonderful
Valen
tin
e I have
ever
rec
Â
eive
d.
To whomever gave
me
that
fl
o"ler,
than~
you
very,
very
much.
Yo·
, re
all
y made 'nY
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