pressures; guided by personal
values.
4. Love, Sex, and Self-Actualization
• Self-actualizing people
experience B-love (Being-
love)—unselfish, mature, and
unconditional love based on
respect and mutual growth,
not neediness.
• Their relationships are deep
and spiritual, often involving
playfulness, humor, and
genuine connection.
• Unlike D-love (Deficiency-
love), B-love does not seek to
fill emotional gaps but
expresses fullness and
acceptance.
In Summary:
Self-actualization means realizing
one’s full potential and living with
authenticity, purpose, and inner
peace.
Self-actualizers are rare (about 1% of
adults), but they show humanity’s
best qualities—creativity,
compassion, autonomy, and a
profound sense of meaning in life.
Summary: Maslow’s Psychology and
Philosophy of Science
Maslow believed that psychology
should study the whole person and
not just isolated behaviors or test
scores. He rejected the value-free
and emotionless approach of
traditional science, arguing instead
for a humanistic, holistic, and value-
oriented science that includes
emotion, wonder, and compassion.
He criticized the “desacralization” of
science — where scientists became
too detached and cold — and urged
for “resacralization”, meaning
science should include awe, joy, and
human values. For him, scientists
must not only analyze but also feel
inspired by what they study.
Maslow proposed a Taoistic attitude
toward psychology: scientists should
be open, intuitive, non-controlling,
and accepting of mystery. He
believed that the goal of science
should not be control and prediction,
but understanding and growth.
Psychologists, he said, must be
emotionally healthy, courageous,
and intuitive, willing to take on