Speaking to Potential_ Communication That Empowers Young Athletes by Elliott Allan Hilsinger.pdf

Clarity and simplicity are essential. Youth athletes need directions that are easy to understand and act upon.

1. Speaking to Potential:
Communication That Empowers
Young Athletes by Elliott Allan
Hilsinger


Elliott Allan Hilsinger explained that Great youth coaching isn’t just about tactics or drills—it’s
about communication that nurtures potential. How a coach speaks, listens, and responds can
spark motivation, build confidence, and develop resilience in young athletes. When
communication is done right, it doesn’t just shape better players; it molds better people.

At the core of effective coaching communication is authentic connection. Young athletes thrive
when they feel their coach genuinely cares about their growth. Knowing each player’s strengths,

2. challenges, and personality creates trust. A coach who remembers a child’s goal or asks about
their school day sends a powerful message: “You matter beyond the game.”

Clarity and simplicity are essential. Youth athletes need directions that are easy to understand
and act upon. Overly technical language can overwhelm or confuse them. Short, focused
instructions paired with demonstrations help bridge the gap between understanding and
performance. Repetition and consistency further reinforce learning in a supportive way.
Equally important is tone and delivery. The difference between criticism and encouragement
often lies in how something is said. A calm, motivating tone invites growth, while frustration can
create fear of failure. Coaches should aim to be firm but kind—correcting mistakes without
diminishing effort.
Empathy is another critical communication skill. Not every player develops at the same pace,
and recognizing that helps coaches tailor feedback to individual needs. When a player
struggles, showing patience and offering constructive guidance can turn frustration into
determination.
Lastly, excellent communication goes both ways. Coaches who encourage athletes to share
ideas, feelings, and questions build a team culture rooted in respect. This openness promotes
accountability and mutual support, essential traits on and off the field.

When youth coaches communicate with empathy, clarity, and authenticity, they unlock more
than athletic performance—confidence, teamwork, and self-belief. Every word spoken with
intention can shape how young athletes play and who they become.