29 my likes & dislikes

Like and dislikes

1. 29 / My Likes & Dislikes

1.0 Every person carries with himself a long list of likes & dislikes. The main reason of
misunderstanding between persons is due to lack of knowledge of this long list of
likes & dislikes. If a person makes these points aware to others over a period of time,
he can make his Life peaceful. At the same time, one must constantly make an
attempt to understand & bear in mind that the other person also has a similar list.

The following list of Likes & Dislikes is not necessarily in the order of importance.

2.0 I Like……..
2.1 People having right perspective.
2.2 To Adjust with realities of Life to the extent possible and then Revolt.
2.3 To appreciate achievement / good qualities etc. of anybody irrespective of any barrier.
2.4 To quit before somebody asking when you will quit.
2.5 To relax proportionately with work.
2.6 Peace of mind.
2.7 Aloofness.
2.8 Listening to soft instrumental music.
2.9 Nature.
2.10 Nature Photography.
2.11 To walk with Life partner.
2.12 To keep the stomach slightly hungry. (Your performance improves.)
2.13 To take calculated risks. (People at times call me pessimistic in the process but for me
cost should be much less than the benefits from any activity, relationship etc.)
2.14 To keep contingency plan ready with every activity.
2.15 To work with co-ordination of mind & body.
2.16 To honour signals.
2.17 To remain a student. (Constantly trying to learn new things, gather information in day
to day walk of Life apart from formal learning of new topics.)
2.18 To break outdated barriers of the society. (broken many)
2.19 To bridge communication gap between people.

2. 2
2.20 Shreya attitude. (i.e. to give advice though bitter for the benefit of the person or the
organization)
2.21 To retrospect.
2.22 To do household chores.
2.23 To be punctual.
2.24 To love whatever I get in Life.
2.25 That Success should be measured by not ‘what you have achieved’ but after
considering ‘what you had to leave to achieve’?
2.26 To set Goals.
2.27 To keep an open approach in Life.
2.28 To save money, energy, time etc. (Saving is my first consideration in any issue)
2.29 To face Life realities with smile. (Though at times I fail in my attempt.)
2.30 To work with involvement and sincerity.
2.31 To do balancing act to reach equilibrium in any matter.
2.32 To respect persons irrespective of age, nature, law of the land etc.
2.33 To honour appointments.
2.34 To wish relatives, friends, colleagues on birthdays etc.
2.35 Guests visiting my home by prior appointment.
2.36 To mean what I say. (I don’t say what I mean unless called for. I don’t hesitate when
warranted by the situation.)
2.37 To concentrate on one matter at a time.
2.38 Simple dress.
2.39 Food I like (not necessarily I eat this often): Chicken Masala, Egg curry, Fried fish,
Rice & Plain thick Dal, potato-bhaji, Kheer, potato vada, potato pakoda, Sabudana
Khichadi, Puranpoli,
 Note: I eat all sorts of food. My wife is a great Chef.
2.40 To drink alone at my home while listening to music and either reading or doing some
work on PC.
2.41 Cold bath.
2.42 To get up early.
2.43 To read philosophical books.
2.44 Problems, difficulties, sorrows, frustration etc. which can be shared.
2.45 Straight forward approach / attitude.

3. 3
2.46 To accept any problem, failure / than justify / blame.
2.47 Parents performing core duties towards their Kids. (I must admit with a heavy heart
that my parents failed in this test.) Probably this may be the reason why I am more
concerned with my core and primary duties & responsibilities in Life.
2.48 To enjoy Life journey more than destination.

3.0 I dislike….…….
3.1 Opposite of what I like.
3.2 Corruption (both inward & outward). At times, I am forced for outward corruption to
save my time and energy.
3.3 People throwing the ladder on reaching to the top. (i.e. forgetting the people after
seeking their help) My experience
3.4 Preya attitude. (What is good to listen or to give advice expected by the other person)
3.5 People ‘selling’ knowledge for money.
3.6 Goody Goody approach.
3.7 Hypocrisy.
3.8 Guests dropping in without prior appointment.
3.9 Rude and insulting approach while dealing with people.
3.10 Artificial behaviour.
3.11 Cheating.
3.12 Sniper behaviour.
3.13 Personal comments.
3.14 Travel by any mode of transport. (I feel nervous if journey time is over 3 hours.)
3.15 Getting trapped during travel.
3.16 Confused person.
3.17 To change decisions day in day out. (I will change decision only if warranted by sea
change in the situation imagined originally.)
3.18 To attend parties & functions of any kind.
3.19 Brightness.
3.20 Drinking while on tour.
3.21 Movies or dramas without good subject. (I do not give weightage to actors.)
3.22 Problems, difficulties, sorrows, frustration etc. which cannot be shared.