• Competency of the head of patriarchy: In most cases, the head of patriarchy (the one who is given
authority) isn’t the most competent person available. They are many more neglected people (women and
beta-males) who can do much better, but can’t be given authority because they weren’t born first or don’t
meet some other ridiculous factors of patriarchy.
• Women’s happiness: It would be quite an understatement to say that women probably would NOT be
happy over losing their political powers. Not all women want to be damsels-in-distresses. Some of them
genuinely want to be as active as their male counterparts. In pure patriarchy, these women would be very
unhappy.
• Wasted potential: Some women (representing underprivileged and neglected people under patriarchy)
genuinely have talent at things that they would not be allowed to pursue under patriarchy. In pure
patriarchy, all of their talents would be wasted. They might be a woman who can use the authority much
better than a man who inherited it. Women have proved to be as useful and wise as men, and neglecting
their potential is a waste that costs patriarchies more than they gain.
• Bad for men as well: Patriarchy isn’t such a hot thing for men either, because patriarchy favors the alpha-
male. Under pure patriarchy, beta-males suffer as much as women. The majority of men aren’t happy under
patriarchy either. In fact, men who fail to live up to the patriarchy’s expectations of a man will become very
unhappy.
I experienced patriarchy in my family. My father was the head of the household before dying, and after passing
away, the authority was transferred to our firstborn. I really don’t think that he was the most competent person
available to lead our family forward, I think our second-born (my sister) was more competent than him. In our
family meetings, she’s the one who always comes up with more constructive ideas and shows us how to implement
them to solve our problems. I think our family would be doing a lot better with her as the head of the household.
2. Charismatic authority: Power legitimized by extraordinary personal abilities that inspire devotion and
obedience.
With this kind of authority, the sharpest person claim authority. Similarly, to patriarchy, this kind of power waste the
potential of shy and introverts. In most cases, the most charismatic person isn’t the most competent person to lead
the way.
Let use my family again as a real-life example. Our 3
rd
born (my brother) is the sharpest, most charismatic member
of our family. If power was to be transferred based on charisma, he would be the head of our family, and as I
mentioned before, our sister is more competent than all of us.
3. Rational-legal Authority: Also known as bureaucratic authority, is when power is legitimized by legally
enacted rules and regulations such as governments. There are rules that govern the transfer of authority, and
it must be given to the most competent person available. There are descriptions of what the person should
have to be given the authority, and all competent people are given equal chance to compete and authority is
legally given to the rightful most competent person available. This makes sure that authority is given to the
finest person available who will use it to provide the finest results.
In the real world, we know that most countries were ruled by patriarchy in the form of kingdoms, but now they have
adopted democracy and chose rational-legal authority over both patriarchy and charismatic authority. Presidents,
heads of counties, … are elected, and authority is given to the person who shows competence.