Exploring Family Systems Therapy “The Bowen Family Systems Theory” BY MIRIAM MUKAMA AND GLORIA MELODY OBETIA
INTRODUCTION Family systems therapy is a branch of psychotherapy that approaches problem-solving by examining relationship dynamics and patterns that exist within family units. It considers the holistic nature of the entire family as an emotional entity and explores how the dynamics and demands of the family system can influence human behavior.
Dr. Murray Bowen developed the family systems theory (or Bowen theory). One of the central premises behind the Bowen family systems theory is that families and the people in them function as one emotional system. Bowen believed that patterns persist in families across generations, and problematic behaviors can be passed down and create similar conflicts. It is grounded in the belief that individuals cannot be understood in isolation but must be examined within the context of their family system.
Assumptions Families are emotional systems, and individual problems are often rooted in family dynamics. Patterns of behavior and emotion can be passed down from generation to generation. Individuals have a certain degree of autonomy, but they are also influenced by their family system.
A triangle in the Bowen family systems theory is a three-person relationship and a building block for larger family systems. This theory suggests triangles provide the smallest stable form of a family emotional system; if tension builds, the two people who are closer in the triangle will choose to grow closer to the outsider. Triangulation The Bowen's family systems theory incorporates eight concepts, including:
Differentiation of Self This refers to an individual's ability to separate their own thoughts and feelings from those of the family. This concept reflects the internal process of being able to integrate and freely choose functioning between emotional and intellectual systems and the external process of being able to remain a separate self while remaining connected to significant others.
Comprising four relationship patterns, this process illustrates how dysfunction within the family can result in emotional distance. Bowen’s study of the family outlined four basic relationship patterns; Marital Conflict: As family tension increases, spouses will externalize their anxiety about their marital partner and relationship.motional distance results in avoiding family tension. Nuclear Family Emotional Process
Dysfunction In One Spouse: One spouse will pressure the other to think or act a certain way, exerting control over their partner. If family tension arises, the subordinate partner may experience high anxiety levels. Impairment Of One Or More Children: A parent may focus all of their anxieties on one or more of their children, limiting their differentiation of self and making the child vulnerable to internalizing family tensions. Emotional Distance: Emotional distance results in avoiding family tension.
Family Projection Process This process shows how parents can transfer their unresolved emotional issues onto their children. When there are disturbances in the family emotional system, and family conflict ensues, this process shows how parents impart their unresolved emotional issues on their children. The family projection process, according to Dr. Bowen follows three steps;
The parent focuses extra attention on one child in the family system out of fear that there is something wrong with the child The parent finds something in the child’s actions or behavior that they perceive as confirming their suspicions The parent then treats the child as if there is something truly wrong without analyzing the child’s positive and negative traits
This concept explores how family patterns from one generation may repeat in the next, impacting individuals' sense of self and relationship patterns. These are patterns of behavior that are passed down from generation to generation. This concept suggests that individuals may distance themselves from their families to manage unresolved emotional issues. Bowen called “cut-off” a state of immature separation of people from each other, reflecting unresolved emotional attachment to parents. Multi-generational Transmission Process Emotional Cutoff
Emotional distancing or cutting ties with family members is a mechanism to manage unresolved issues and can lead to significant life differences across generations. Sibling Position In Bowen’s family systems theory, incorporating the work of Dr. Walter Toman, sibling position posits that individuals who grow up in the same sibling position (1st born, middle, or youngest child) have predictable, common characteristics. Birth order and the role of siblings in the family impact personality development.
Bowen extended the theory beyond the family and applied it to larger social systems, including work environments, communities, and society at large. It examines how emotional processes play out in these broader systems. He proposed that the emotional processes observed within families are not confined to individual households but are part of a larger societal pattern. Societal Emotional Process
Genograms: A visual representation of family relationships across generations, helping the therapist and family members identify patterns and connections. Triangle work: Bowenian therapists may help clients to identify and understand the triangles in their family system. Process Questions: Therapists use questions to explore family dynamics, helping individuals gain insight into their emotional processes. Techniques
Holistic Approach: Focuses on the entire family system rather than individual symptoms. Long-lasting Effects: Addresses patterns that span generations, leading to lasting change. Promotes Individual Growth: Encourages individuals to develop emotional autonomy and self-awareness Strengths
Time-Consuming: The therapy process can be lengthy, as it involves exploring intricate family patterns over time. Not Suitable for Crisis Intervention: May not be the best choice for immediate or crisis-focused interventions . Model is constructed more for educated people than an average person or uneducated person. Weaknesses