A Choleric may not have many friends; having scared or injured most of the people they know. They
need friends because a strong Choleric may come to dislike even themself over time. Cholerics have
the most difficulty with the warm, outgoing Sanguines and would probably do best with easygoing
Phlegmatics as friends. In a spouse or partner, a Choleric most needs someone with a great deal of
personal strength. Another Choleric would probably be best suited as a spouse with the Phlegmatic
coming in a distant second.
Temperament Type Combinations
As stated earlier, each of us is a combination of two temperament types – one is dominant, the other is
secondary. The following section gives details concerning each combination.
Choleric Phlegmatic – CholPhleg - High D High S in DiSC parlance.
A Choleric Phlegmatic is a person who is known for steadily achieving goals or finishing plans; but in
a quiet, unobtrusive sort of way. The most easygoing of the Choleric types, the Phlegmatic secondary
softens the sharp Choleric primary just enough to make them easier to get along with. As with all
Cholerics, a Choleric Phlegmatic doesn’t really care how they achieve a goal, even if it means hurting
other’s feelings. But in this case, the Choleric Phlegmatic won’t actively seek to antagonize others (as
we will see with the Choleric Melancholy). As long as you understand that this is still mainly a
Choleric, it is much easier to get along with this blend. Because the Phlegmatic is secondary, the
Choleric Phlegmatic is much less likely to have strong angry outbursts. They often show their Choleric
‘edge’ through less-than-funny pranks (i.e. the stinky cheese in the desk drawer, etc).
Choleric Sanguine – CholSan – High D High i in DiSC parlance.
The Choleric Sanguine can be strongly persuasive. Having the driven nature of the Choleric, the
Sanguine secondary type can be ‘used’ to persuade others by means of their outgoing nature. The
weakness of the Choleric is a tendency towards anger; one weakness of the Sanguine is brief but
intense outbursts of strong feeling. A Sanguine doesn’t hold on to these feelings for long; once over,
they return to their normal cheery selves. In a Choleric Sanguine, however, anger can be sustained and
loud. Rather than gradually fading, a Choleric Sanguine may hold a ‘grudge’ for a very long period of
time.
It may be stereotypical, but a Choleric Sanguine makes an excellent outside sales person; combining
drive with the ability to charm.
Choleric Melancholy – CholMel – High D High C in DiSC parlance.
The Choleric Melancholy is a powerful combination of Temperament characteristics. The driven nature
of the Choleric is augmented by the analytical nature of the Melancholy. A Choleric Melancholy
lawyer would be a formidable combination of ‘in your face’ determination with exacting amounts of
facts and figures to back them up. The Choleric again wants to achieve goals and uses their Melancholy
side to arm themselves via analysis. The downside is that the anger of the Choleric combined with the
critical nature of the Melancholy can cause extremely unhappy arguments and confrontations, which
the Choleric will most likely ‘win’ and ‘lose’ at the same time.
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