Core Values in Building Strong Relationships

Values play a crucial role in shaping and maintaining healthy relationships. They serve as guiding principles that influence behavior, decision-making, and interactions among individuals.

1. HUMAN VALUES ARE CLOSELY RELATED WITH HUMAN LIFE. NO HUMAN LIFE IS POSSIBLE WITHOUT VALUES. HUMAN VALUES ARE THOSE UNIVERSAL CONCEPT, DRIVES OF ACTION WHICH ARE FOUND IN ALL CULTURE, ALL SOCIETIES, ALL TIME AND IN ALL PLACES WHERE HUMAN BEINGS EXIST.

2. UNDERSTANDING VALUES IN HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THERE IS NEED OF MUTUAL HAPPINESS. ​ MUTUAL HAPPINESS IN RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS ON : ​ RECOGNITION OF DEFINITE FEELINGS (VALUES ) ​ THEIR FULFILLMENT ​  RIGHT EVALUATION OF THE FULFILLMENT        ​

3. TYPEs 0F HUMAN VALUES  ​ THERE ARE FIVE HUMAN VALUES WHICH CAN BE FOUND IN ALL  CULTURES, ALL SOCIETIES AND IN ALL RELIGION, THEY ARE: ​  TRUST  ​  LOVE  ​  RESPECT  CARE  COMMUNICATION  ​ THESE VALUES ARE ETERNAL ESSENCES. ​

4. TRUst ​ TRUST MEANS THAT YOU RELY ON SOMEONE ELSE TO DO THE RIGHT THING. YOU BELIEVE IN THE PERSON'S INTEGRITY AND STRENGTH, TO THE EXTENT THAT YOU'RE ABLE TO PUT YOURSELF ON THE LINE, AT SOME RISK TO YOURSELF. TRUST IS ESSENTIAL TO AN EFFECTIVE TEAM, BECAUSE IT PROVIDES A SENSE OF SAFETY.

5. LOVE ​ LOVE IS NOT  AN EMOTIONAL, AFFECTED EMOTION BY THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND, BUT IS A PURE REACTION FROM THE HEART. IT IS POWER OF LOVE WHICH CAUSES ONE PERSON TO WISH HAPPINESS FOR ANOTHER AND TAKE PLEASURE IN THEIR WELL-BEING. ​ LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL POSITIVE REGARD FOR THE GOOD OF ANOTHER .IT IS GIVING AND UNSELFISH. ​ ​

6. REspect ​ RESPECT , ALSO CALLED  ESTEEM , IS A POSITIVE  FEELING  OR DEFERENTIAL ACTION SHOWN TOWARDS SOMEONE OR SOMETHING CONSIDERED IMPORTANT OR HELD IN HIGH ESTEEM OR REGARD. IT CONVEYS A SENSE OF ADMIRATION FOR GOOD OR VALUABLE QUALITIES. IT IS ALSO THE PROCESS OF HONORING SOMEONE BY EXHIBITING CARE, CONCERN, OR CONSIDERATION FOR THEIR NEEDS OR FEELINGS. [1] ​

7. CARE CAREGIVING BEHAVIORS ARE AIMED AT REDUCING THE PARTNER'S DISTRESS AND SUPPORTING THEIR COPING EFFORTS IN SITUATIONS OF EITHER THREAT OR CHALLENGE. CARE  IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT ELEMENTS OF A SUCCESSFUL  RELATIONSHIP  BECAUSE IT FOSTERS TRUST, INTIMACY, AND CONNECTION.

8. COMMUNICATION ​ COMMUNICATION IS ABOUT EXPRESSING OURSELVES IN A WAY THAT DOES AS LITTLE HARM TO OTHERS AS POSSIBLE. BUT ABOVE ALL ELSE IT’S ABOUT HEARING EACH OTHER WITH COMPASSIONATE EARS.   IT’S ABOUT STAYING OPEN AND RECEPTIVE EVEN WHEN WE’RE HURTING.

9. THUS, SHARING CORE VALUES IS VITAL TO A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.  WITHOUT THEM, LIFE TOGETHER CAN BEGIN TO DEGRADE, AND FRICTION MAY BECOME UNAVOIDABLE . COMMUNICATION, CONFLICT RESOLUTION, PROBLEM-SOLVING, AND DECISION-MAKING ARE MUCH MORE STRAIGHTFORWARD WHEN PEOPLE'S MORALS AND PRINCIPLES ALIGN. THANK YOU