Tagging future events with a particular time or age by which they are to be completed
creates a social clock. This personal timetable gives people a way to track progress through
adulthood, and it may use biological markers of time (such as menopause), social aspects of
time (such as marriage), and historical time (such as the turn of the century) (Hagestad &
Neugarten, 1985).
Possible Selves
Personal Control Beliefs - reflect the degree to which you believe your performance in a
situation depends on something you do
Primary Control - is behavior aimed at affecting the individual’s external world; working a
second job to increase one’s earnings is an example. One’s ability to influence the environment
is heavily influenced by biological factors (e.g., stamina to work two jobs); so it changes over
time—from very low influence during early childhood to high influence during middle age and
then to very low again in late life.
Secondary Control - is behavior or cognition aimed at affecting the individual’s internal world;
an example is believing that one is capable of success even when faced with challenges
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RELATIONSHIP TYPES AND ISSUES
Friendships
Friendship in adulthood: - From a developmental perspective, adult friendships can be
viewed as having identifiable stages (Levinger, 1980, 1983): Acquaintanceship, Buildup,
Continuation, Deterioration, and End
Three broad themes characterize both traditional (e.g., face-to-face) and new
forms (e.g., online) of adult friendship
1. The affective or emotional basis of friendship refers to self-disclosure and
expressions of intimacy, appreciation, affection, and support, and all are based
on trust, loyalty, and commitment.
2. The shared, or communal nature, of friendship reflects how friends participate in
or support activities of mutual interest
3. The sociability and compatibility dimension represents how our friends keep us
entertained and are sources of amusement, fun, and recreation.
Men’s, Women’s, and Cross-Sex Friendships - Men’s and women’s friendships tend
to differ in adulthood, reflecting continuity in the learned behaviors from childhood