Exploring Total Power Exchange Outside the Bedroom

Discover how to explore Total Power Exchange and BDSM outside of the bedroom. Great for being in Dominant/submissive relationships. If you're interested in kink, check out this training. Presented by the creators of Domsubliving.com.

1. EXPLORING TOTAL
POWER EXCHANGE
OUTSIDE THE
BEDROOM
Jay & Alesandra from Dom Sub Living

2. WE'RE JAY &
ALESANDRA FROM
DOM SUB LIVING
We help new and experienced Doms and subs live
the BDSM lifestyle to the fullest.
We are a 24/7 Dom/sub, married couple, and we
have 2 children.
We have been in our dynamic for over a decade.

3. WHAT IS TOTAL
POWER EXCHANGE?
TPE is a relationship
dynamic where all authority
is passed from the
submissive to the Dominant.
01
A consensual relationship
where the Dom has
absolute control, and can
exercise that control
however they see fit.
02
Sometimes you’ll hear
people use the terms 24/7
and TPE interchangeably.
03

4. WHERE PEOPLE GO
WRONG...

5. THE 'ALL
OR
NOTHING'
APPROACH
Micro Controlling
Overcomplicating Things
Refusing to delegate
Removing all choices

6. Brainstorm different areas of your life outside the
bedroom where you want to have that control
STEP 1

7. Morning and
evening routines
Nutrition
Finances
Communication
Sleep
Exercise
Self-care
Clothing
Rituals
Leaving the house
Screentime use
Examples:

8. DECIDE ON JUST A
FEW TO GET
STARTED.
You can control all aspects of your life outside the bedroom, but

9. Decide on the degree of control, and change it as
the Dom sees fit.
STEP2

10. DECIDE ON THE DEGREE OF
CONTROL YOU WANT FOR
EACH AREA, BUT KNOW THAT IT
MAY CHANGE.

11. Review from time to time.
STEP 3

12. MEET
TOGETHE
R AND
SEE HOW
THINGS
WENT
Reward
Reward yourselves and celebrate: Have a
scene or buy new gear
Recommit
Figure out why things didn't go as great as
you had planned
Revise
Revise the amount of control in that area if
it's become more of a burden
Eliminate or add
Don't be afraid to stop what isn't working,
but continue to add more areas

13. EXPLORE TOTAL
POWER EXCHANGE
OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM
Brainstorm different
areas to control
01
Decide the degree of
control
02
Review regularly
03

14. YOUR
HOMEWORK
Pick 3 new areas of your life outside the
bedroom where you want to bring more power
exchange and control
Ask and share in the private community for
some new ideas

15. Next steps...
Attend the Masterclass on Friday:
3 Keys to Creating a Killer D/s
Dynamic.
Click the link below this video to add
it to your calendar so you don’t miss
it!