How to text girls

How To Text Girls to get Dates, Phone Calls and More

2. Table of Contents
Part 1: What’s Wrong with Texting Today 3
Relying on guesswork .............................................................................................. 5
Failing women who like you ................................................................................. 7
Losing focus on the goal ...................................................................................... 9
Part 2: 10 Rules of Texting 10
Part 3: Conclusion 17

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Part 1:

What’s Wrong with Texting Today
According to 2011 data from AT&T, roughly 5 billion text
messages are sent every day in the United States alone. That's
a 100% increase from merely 2 years earlier, in 2009. Text
messages have become an ever greater part of our
communication - particularly between single men and
women.
But we have to ask: does texting work for getting dates?

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We're all looking for ways to more efficiently and effectively communicate
with the people we like and want to get to know better. The great
advantage of text messaging has been that it enables individuals to
communicate in short snippets that let the recipient respond when she
has a chance instead of having to decide in the moment whether to
respond or not, as she would with a phone call. But despite text
messaging's ubiquity and familiarity, most men still haven't figured out
how to use it to get dates.
In fact, out of all the emails, messages, and
comments we receive at GirlsChase.com,
guys wan)ng to know what to text next to a
girl or how to interpret a girl's tex)ng
behavior remain some of the most frequent
requests. Texting remains a mysterious and
poorly understood medium for
communicating between the sexes.

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Relying on guesswork
Guessing doesn't get you dates.
Quick - what's your process for getting dates via text
message? If you're like the vast majority of guys out there,
your answer is this: "I don't have one."
Know anyone who guesses their way to success regularly with
anything? So why do so many men keep trying to guess with
something as important as getting dates with the girls they
like?
Guys texting girls they like frequently resort to trying to be interesting,

6. Beating around the bush destroys girls' patience... and their interest in YOU.
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sound cool, be funny, or - even worse - build a connection with a girl over
text message before asking her out. A connection built over text! Sounds
pretty silly when you put it that way, doesn't it? But guys keep doing it.
What happens? The girl knows they're beating around the bush and it's a
turnoff.
Most guys cause their own frustration.
You'll find most guys come in 1 of 2 styles:
• Too safe (beating around the bush), or
• Too forward (leLng it all hang out)
And if styles don't work... they keep using them
anyway!

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Failing women who like you
Imagine for a second that you're not you,
but rather a girl that you like. And you meet
some guy, and think he's cute, and you
hope he's cool... and that he'll ask you out.
Then he starts texIng you funny things
about his day. and trying to be clever. and
sending you lots of long geLng-to-know- you
style texts. And this goes on. and on. and
on. He doesn't ask you out. he just. keeps...
TEXTING.
Still hoping he'll ask you out?

8. Beating around the bush destroys girls' patience... and their interest in YOU.
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No girl wants to wait forever for some guy to pull the trigger. And very few
girls will wait forever - most of the time, you're not the only guy who's
texting her. And if you're not geLng down to business with her, there's a
good chance someone else a little more... motivated, perhaps... will.
Being too forward can be a kiss of death though, too.
Whether that's too forward as in, "I really like you," or too forward as in,
"Here, take a look at this picture of my 00$ ” letting it all hang out is NOT an
effective texting strategy, unless you're overpoweringly attractive and she's
already dying to see you. And even if she is, she'd probably still like a little
intrigue to keep her guessing. No need to disappoint her by holding up a
glaring sign that says, "HEY, I REALLY LIKE YOU! YOU FEEL THE SAME?"

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Losing focus on the goal
How often have you taken a girl's number because you really wanted to:
• Get into hours- or days-long text conversations?
• Finally have someone to text all the details of your day to?
• Find a new buddy for comparing notes on the latest romcom with?

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• Discuss the latest trends in fashion - what's "in" this season, anyway?
• Have someone to complain to about your teacher / boss / turtle?
Probably none of those, right? So why'd you get her number again?
Oh, right - so you could see her again.
But if that's the case, why do so many guys start doing all that other stuff
instead?

11. As wonderful a tool as texting is, its actual value as a
medium for connecting people more often than not falls
short - both for the person trying to do the connecting, and
the person he's trying to connect with.
Understanding the rules of textng can help you to make
better decisions about how to do your own textng - and
both create a better experience for the women you meet,

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and a much greater chance that you'll see them again.

13. of Texting

10 Rules

1. Above all else, sick to the
point
2. Break the ice fast
3. Don't be silly or crack too
many jokes
4. Keep things brief
5. Don't take too long



6. If it feels like

7. it's taking too long, it is
8. Don't "tell all." Just don't
9. Don't pretend you aren't
interested, either
10. Get her schedule

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11. Tell her what to do (it's easy)

15. 10 Rules of Texting
Most guys today have never bothered to get down the basic fundamental rules of texting. They
(and the women they text) then suffer for this. We think that's terrible. Up next, we're going to
go through (and explain) each of the 10 Rules of Texting.

1. Stick to the point
One of the reasons texting works is because it's a short, direct, and efficient means of
communication. Just like you feel annoyed every time you get a pointless-feeling text
("Why is this person texting me this?"), girls do too. Stick to the point - and the point, with
texting, is that the two of you should meet.
2. Break the ice fast
Ever get a first text or phone call from someone you met ages ago? Felt weird, right? Don't
put girls in that situation - a simple, "Hanna, great meeting you today! - Mark," a few hours
after meeting her will do. Oh, and don't forget your name - just in case she does!
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#1: Above all else,

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3. Don't be silly or crack too many jokes
A lot of guys hear the well-known fact that women like a guy with a sense of humor and take
that thought to its seemingly logical conclusion - "If girls like guys with a sense of humor,
then just wait until they get a load of my rainbow wig and Bozo nose - they'll love ME!" But
what people actually mean when they say women like a guy with a sense of humor is that
they love a guy who makes casual, witty, effortless remarks - not a guy who's a
laugh-a-minute and comes across like he's playing the role of entertainer. So go easy on the
laughs, Chuckles. It's actually better cracking no jokes than too many.
Keep things brief
Have you ever gotten one of those really long text messages people sometimes send, looked
at it, and silently thought to yourself, "Why?"
Don't do that to girls - don't be a burden. Instead, keep texts short, brief, and easy to reply to
- or not. Like:
"Heading to the café on Main near you. Let me know if you're around and down to grab a
tea."

17. 5. Don't take too long
By "take too long," what I don't mean is you just spent 20 minutes carefully crafting the
perfect text. It's debatable whether that's a good use of your time, BUT she doesn't know so
it won't hurt you. Rather, what I mean is, don't spend weeks texting back and forth before
you ask her out. If you wait that long, you'll have built it up into a much bigger deal than it
should be... and if you wait that long, you'd better have one heck of an impressive pitch to
get her to go out. Instead, just casually ask her out first thing after getting her number.
Easy. Much easier than trying to figure out how to do it weeks later.
#6: If it feels like it's taking too long,
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it is
6. If it feels like it's taking too long, it is
Ever start getting that feeling that things have been dragging on too long and you should do
something... or should've done something ages ago? Well guess what - if you're feeling that
way, she probably is too. Or worse - it's already too late. Learn to listen to this feeling: it'll
save you a lot of wasted time (and wasted phone numbers).

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Don't "tell all." Just don't
You know what I mean: "Casey... look... I like you a lot. I don't
know if you feel the same way, but I really care about you. I just
had to tell you that."
First off, there are a number of things technically wrong with
doing an emotion dump on a woman via text. For instance,
you're effectively communicating to her: "Okay, I told you I liked
you... now YOU do everything!" in an arena (dating) where
women are waiting for MEN to take the lead. But besides that,
this just drips of not really knowing much about her (otherwise
you wouldn't need to ask) and pushes a girl away.
No matter how tempting it may be to "get it off your chest,"
don't do this one. Trust me here, you'll thank me later.
Don't pretend you aren't interested, either
Why? Simple: if you ACT like you just want to be a girl's friend,
she's going to TREAT you like you're just a friend, THINK of you
like just a friend, and meantime she'll be out dating guys who
didn't hide their interest. Think she's going to realize what a
great guy you are? Guys always think this, and always end up
disappointed. Even if she asks you what you're after or whether
you like her, don't say no - instead, build intrigue, like:
"Ask me the next Ome we hang out. I'm sOll making up my
mind..."

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#9: Get her schedule
9. Get her schedule
What happens if you text her, "Hey, are you free Saturday?" and the answer's "no"?
She instantly becomes a lot less likely to ever agree to meet up with you again (it's a
psychological thing - precedence, effectively), and you're now chasing after her and
scrambling to find a date she's open. Instead, text her this:
"Annie, what's your schedule like this week? Let's grab a bite before the weekend."
10. Tell her what to do (it's easy)
Many men will try to leave it up to the girl to pick what to do - "Okay, I'll just let her decide,
then she can pick something she likes and she'll be more likely to want to go," they think.
Truth? Most women have no idea what they want to do on a date. Women look to men to
lead here - so once you know when she's free, pick a time, pick a place, tell her to meet you
there at that time, and ask her if that sounds good. Easy, right?

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Texting that actually works
Too commonly guys put a lot of pressure on themselves to make their text conversations
"perfect." They want to have enough wit, be impressive enough, and get a real conversation
going over text. This misses the fact that text is a far poorer medium for doing any of this than
being live and in-person - or than even a simple phone call. Here's the most effective way you
can come to view text messaging: as a dating-planning tool. Use it for handling your logistics -
nothing more.
Not every girl whose number you get will meet up with you, of course - but trust me, if she isn't
open to the idea of meeting up with you right after you trade phone numbers, she isn't going to
be any more open to meeting up with you weeks or months down the road, either. So go for the
meet fast - you'll save yourself (and her) a lot of time, a lot of hassle, and a lot of heartache.

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