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. . . SO HELP ME, GOD!
“You’ll do best by �lling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic,
compelling, gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things
to curse. Put into practice what you learned from me, what you heard and saw and realized. Do that,
and God, who makes everything work together, will work you into his most excellent harmonies.”
Philippians 4:8, 9, �e Message
In our present context, there are three things that are very interesting about this
passage. �e most notable, of course, is that the �rst criterion for what to �ll one’s mind
with is truth. And that’s the core value we’re looking at: living authentically and honestly
with God, ourselves, and each other.
�e second thing comes last in the text: the translation, “his most excellent
harmonies.” I love that, don’t you? For one thing, it automatically rules out any lock-step
obedience that turns unity into sameness. God doesn’t like sameness. If you doubt, go
outside and look around! Harmonies require di�erent notes, and even di�erent timing
and sound.
�e third thing, the one we will spend some time on, is “learned from me.” Paul
says this sort of thing several times in his letters, and sometimes, to tell the truth, he
seems a little arrogant about it. Shouldn’t he be telling them to imitate Jesus, not him?
Yes, and it’s clear from all his writings taken together that that’s what Paul means.
But how do we learn? From each other. All the time. Good and bad. You learned all
kinds of things yesterday from all kinds of people, and all kinds of people learned
something from you. What did they see?
Scary thought, sometimes. Which is why we choose to put God into the center,
meditate on the truths He shows us, practice telling them to ourselves and maybe one
other person, and then, then we have a chance of living truly, honestly, authentically
with all. �en, the things God shows us, the things we learn and speak and say, the
good and true and authentic and gracious things we learn from each other will become
natural parts of our lives, and when people see us, they’ll see love, which will make
them see Jesus.
�at’s a miracle, pure and simple. And it starts with telling the truth, the whole
truth, and nothing but the truth, so help us, God!
God of truth, nobility, authenticity, and grace, make me more like You. Help me
to see Your truth, then to see my own truth, and then to share them both with those
around me, not to make them more like me, but to help them turn to You.
. . . AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH . . .
“If you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from
the dead, you will be saved.” Romans 10:9, NASB
Many, many psychologists, books, and self-help gurus will tell you that your �rst
task in being whole is to tell yourself the truth. �ey’re almost right. �at’s your second
task. Until you start trying to tell God the truth, letting Him shine His �ashlight around
the dark corners and to show you truths you never knew were there, it is pointless to
even try to tell yourself the truth.
But a�er you’ve begun that, then you must also say it to yourself. �is could be out
loud, or it could be a journal. It is very helpful to have a godly helper such as a pastor,
counselor, parent, close friend, to be your listening board. �at’s one reason alcoholics
and addicts put so much emphasis on telling themselves, God, and one other person the
whole truth about themselves as they learn it. �ey’ve found it essential to getting well.
For instance, God says to you one day, “Remember when that happened to you in
the fourth grade? It caused you to begin drawing back on yourself or acting out in such-
and-such ways, and look how it’s a�ected your relationships—this one, and that one . . .”
“Wow,” you respond. “I had no idea! What an awesome insight! From now on, I
won’t [act out, draw back, whatever.]”
�en you go about your life, and to your disgust, the same actions and thoughts still
have sway. You may even, as in James 1:24, forget all about the insight that impressed
you so much at the time.
�at’s why I chose the study verse I did, even though it doesn’t seem to have much
to do with God’s command not to lie. It shows the importance of saying what we believe.
Remember, the old thoughts and desires and false beliefs that have held us captive have
been repeated and repeated, perhaps for years. We’ll have to repeat the new truth over
and over in order to convince our hearts to really believe it and live by it.
�en, and only then, will we begin to be able to live authentically before our own
mirror as well as before God.
Now we are ready to look at the Christian core value of authenticity with others—a
much more complex subject!
Great God of Truth, I know that when I gave You my whole heart, You took it, and
claimed all of me. I also know there’s a lot more for me to learn! Please lead me quickly
enough to help me grow, and slowly enough that I don’t collapse from the weight of all
the lies I’ve lived by and never even known about.