Regulators are often culture specific. Examples of regulators are the head nod, eye
contact, and shift in body position. Because they are subtle they often tend to lead
to miss communication and inappropriate responses among people of different
cultures and ethnic backgrounds. Self-touching is a body-focused movement.
Touching the face can indicate shame or other negative attitudes about oneself.
Self-touching is associated with hostility and suspicion. It occurs more often under
certain conditions, for instance, during informal and formal interviews, when in
subordinate roles (like being inter-viewed), and in interaction with the opposite sex.
Some typical self-touching gestures are the hand-to-nose (fear) gesture, fingers on
the lips (shame), and making a fist (anger).
Other gestures include covering the eyes, ears or mouth; movements connected
with eating and excretion, grooming, and picking the nose, ears or teeth. These
gestures are mainly used in private or in intimate relationships and are inhibited in
public, where the people present usually ignore them. Fidgeting is an activity that
often involves self-touching.
Body movements form a language but, viewed in isolation, they can be difficult or
even to understand; they take on real significance only when considered alongside
the other elements of the interaction process.
Body movements include the head, eyes, eyebrows, lips, neck, shoulders, arms,
fingers and so on.
Body movements form a language, no doubt, but individual gestures movements,
taken exclusively, are like a letter of the alphabet, or incomplete words; that is, they
are meaningless in themselves.
For instance, some have `natural' smiles, while some others have the habit of
leaning on their hands; all the time, or keeping their legs (and arms) constantly
crossed. 'What is meaningful however a transition from one body position to
another is'. If a person spends most of the time during a meeting leaning forward,
for instance, it may be considered merely as a position of comfort. But if the same
person keeps leaning back and moving forward during the session, he is
communicating non-verbally. If a person is sitting perfectly still and suddenly starts
twitching or moving his eyes, that is a transition. Even a change in the rate of
breathing can be regarded as a transition.
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