better rested and allowed time to take care of our own needs.
Taking parental breaks is good for the baby with high needs.
Above all, remain positive. Chances are you are doing the right
thing and your high needs baby will be just fine.
Colic vs high needs
The difference between colic and high needs infants is likely
related to the origin of the behavior. Colic is proposed as episodic
painful episodes emanating from the gastrointestinal tract. Colic
associated crying carries a painful pitch and often responds to
changes in formula. The behavior of the high needs baby is likely
emotional and related to developing personality traits. These
specific traits manifest as difficult behaviors during infancy but
will likely evolve into, and respond to, a more conventional
expression of behavior.
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