inner child healing for people with traumas

inner child healing for people with traumas

1. Where is Your Inner Child When I grow up I want to be a little boy.  ~Joseph Heller, Vikram

2. Outline Greetings & Introduction: 4mins Childhood Memories and Clip: 3 mins Definition: 10 mins Children Within US 10: mins Hound-out Eric Berne Theory: 10 mins I’m Ok. You are Ok: 5mins Clip 2

3. The great man is he who does not lose his child's-heart. ~Mencius, Book IV Why we should know our “Inner Child”? First 8 years of our life = 80% of a person's personality

4. In every real man a child is hidden that wants to play. ~Friedrich Nietzsche Charles J. Fillmore, American linguist Psychological Definition Carl Jung referred to a similar concept as the "Divine Child". Emmet Fox called it the "Wonder Child". Some psychotherapists call it the "True Self“. Charles Whitfield dubbed it the "Child Within". Transactional Analysis calls it simply “Child”.

5. Examples of some of the Children you might find inside are: Hand out The Playful Child The Spoiled Child The Neglected Child The Abandoned Child The Fearful Child The Unbonded Child The Discounted Child The Wise Child "Wise Nurturer" or "Inner Parent Self"

6. The Inner Child refers to that part of each of us which is ultimately alive, energetic, creative and fulfilled; it is our "Genuine Authentic Self", who we know deep within us, our "Real Self.“

7. Eric Berne Theory of Transactional Analysis interpersonal relationships to three ego-states of the individuals Parent Adult Child

8. Eric Berne Theory of Transactional Analysis

9. Eric Berne's Transactional Analysis Parent is our 'Taught' concept of life Nurturing (positive) and Spoiling (negative). Controlling - Structuring (positive) and Critical (negative). Adult is our 'Thought' concept of life Adult remains as a single entity, representing an 'accounting' function or mode, which can draw on the resources of both Parent and Child. Child is our 'Felt' concept of life Adapted - Co-operative (positive) and Compliant/Resistant (negative). Free - Spontaneous (positive) and Immature (negative).

10. Knowing how to operate from the I'm OK You're OK model will transform your interactions with others

11. A grownup is a child with layers on. ~Woody Harrelson

12. Peace to you on your journey to loving to yourself. You can encourage your Inner Parent to cuddle your Inner Child when it is crying or needs to be heard. Soothe you Inner Child when he or she is under emotional stress. Use the awareness of the Inner Dialogues that are going on and become apart of the path you are on instead of being lead where you might not want to go. Ultimately you can heal and be a happy person in your life.

13. O men, grown sick with toil and care, Leave for awhile the crowded mart; O women, sinking with despair, Weary of limb and faint of heart, Forget your years to-day and come As children back to childhood's house. ~Phoebe Cary

14. References: Harris, Thomas. I'm OK, You're OK. Harper 2004.. Games People Play - Eric Berne What Do You Say After You Say Hello - Eric Berne

15. Questions? He who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe is as good as dead; his eyes are closed. ~Albert Einstein

16. Thank you For your patience and curiosity to participate in my presentation A grownup is a child with layers on. ~Woody Harrelson

17. My childhood may be over, but that doesn't mean playtime is. ~Ron Olson By Maliheh Taheri © 2010 haiku Centre Pte Ltd