LEARNING TO BE A
PERSON IN A
SOCIETY
Summarized from several sources
by Masduki
Doctorate Program in
Education, UMM
2023
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Contents and Objectives:
•With the given PPT, we can understand:
1.the concepts of learning to be a person in a society
(What)
2.Key elements of learning to be a person in a society
(What)
3.a range of skills and understanding various aspects
of social interaction (What)
4.some suggestions to help you navigate and thrive in
social settings (How)
I. The Concepts
•The concept of "learning to be a person in society"
encompasses the process through which individuals acquire
the skills, knowledge, behaviors, and attitudes necessary to
function effectively within a social context.
•It involves the development of social competence and the
ability to navigate various aspects of interpersonal
relationships, cultural norms, and societal expectations.
•This learning process is often referred to as socialization.
II. Key Elements
1. Socialization
•This is the lifelong process through which
individuals, beginning in childhood, learn the
norms, values, customs, and behaviorsof their
culture or society.
•Socialization occurs through interactions with
family, peers, educational institutions, media,
and other social institutions.
2. Cultural Awareness
•Learning to be a person in society involves
becoming aware of and understanding the
cultural nuances and diversity within a
community.
•This includes recognizing and respecting
different cultural practices, beliefs, and
traditions.
3. Communication Skills
•Effective communication is crucial for
navigating social interactions.
•Learning how to express oneself clearly, listen
actively, and interpret non-verbal cues
contributes to successful communication.
4. Emotional Intelligence
•Developing emotional intelligence involves
understanding and managing one's own
emotions and being empathetic towards the
emotions of others.
•This skill is essential for building healthy
relationships.
5. Social Norms and Etiquette
•Individuals learn the expected behaviors,
manners, and social norms that are
acceptable within a particular society.
•This includes understanding appropriate
conduct in various settings and situations.
III. HOW
Learning How to Be a Person in Society
•It involves developing a range of skills and
understanding various aspects of social interaction.
•Here are some suggestions (how) to help you
navigate and thrive in social settings:
1. Observe and Learn
1.Pay attention to social norms, behaviors, and
communication styles of people around you.
2.Observe how others handle different situations and
learn from both positive and negative examples.
2. Communication Skills
•Work on your communication skills, including verbal and non-verbal
communication.
•Learn to express yourself clearly and listen actively to others.
3. Empathy
•Develop empathy to understand and share the
feelings of others. Put yourself in their shoes
to gain perspective.
4. Respect
•Treat others with respect and kindness.
Respect differences in opinions, cultures, and
backgrounds.
5. Social Etiquette
•Familiarize yourself with basic social etiquette,
including greetings, table manners, and other
cultural norms.
6. Build Relationships
•Cultivate meaningful relationships by investing time in building connections with
others.
•Develop and maintain friendships that are based on trust, mutual understanding,
and support.
7. Self-awareness
•Understand yourself, including your strengths,
weaknesses, and emotions. Self-awareness is
crucial for effective social interactions.
8. Adaptability
•Be flexible and adaptable to different social
situations. Learn to adjust your behavior
based on the context and the people involved.
9. Conflict Resolution
•Learn how to handle conflicts in a constructive
manner. Focus on finding solutions rather than
placing blame.
10. Cultural Competence
•Develop cultural competence by learning
about and respecting the diversity of cultures,
beliefs, and traditions.
11. Mindfulness
•Practice mindfulness to stay present in social
situations. Being present allows you to fully engage
in conversations and understand others better.
12. Continuous Learning:
•Social dynamics evolve, so be open to
continuous learning. Stay informed about
current events, societal changes, and evolving
social norms.
13. Positive Attitude:
•Maintain a positive and optimistic attitude.
Positivity can attract others and contribute to
a healthy social environment.
14. Social Activities:
•Engage in social activities or join groups that
align with your interests. This can help you
meet new people and practice your social
skills.
Concluding Remarks:
1.Remember that everyone's social journey is unique,
and it's okay to make mistakes and learn from them.
2.Learning to be a person in a society involves social
skills.
3.Social skills are developed over time, so be patient
with yourself as you navigate the complexities of
social interactions.
Sources:
Bandura, A. (1977). Social Learning Theory. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall.
Mead, G. H. (1934). Mind, Self, and Society. The University of Chicago Press.
Goffman, E. (1967). Interaction Ritual: Essays on Face-to-Face Behavior. Anchor Books.