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1. PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS

2. CONTENT Attraction Love Commitment

3. Understanding of teen-age relationships Express his/her way of showing attraction, love and commitment Identify ways to become responsible in a relationship

4. Relationship Two or more: - people -groups -countries

5. t alk to b ehave toward d eal with

6. Personal Relationship c lose connections e motional bonds and interactions

7. a. family two or more people related by: -birth -marriage -adoption -live together as one household

8. Types of Marriage Civil and religious marriage civil-by the state r eligious-church

9. 2. Interfaith marriage t wo different religion

10. 3. Common law marriage l ive together n o certificate of registry

11. 4. Shotgun marriage b ecause of unplanned pregnancy

12. 5. Mixed marriage i nter-racial marriage

13. 6. Same-sex marriage Same gender

14. 7. arranged marriage f amily finds a match

15. 8. Convenience marriage p racticality financially

16. 9. Zombie marriage n ice to each other in front of many n ot happy in the relationship

17. 10. Open marriage a llowed to see each other people

18. 11. Parenting marriage f or the sake of the kids

19. 12. The partnership b usiness partners

20. b. friendship Close tie -mutual experiences -shared interests -proximity -emotional bonding

21. c. partnerships two people -affection -trust -intimacy -romantic love

22. Attachments Styles Secure attachment -primary caregiver -all of the emotional needs are met

23. 2. Avoidant attachment c old and detached u nresponsive to child’s needs rejection

24. 3. Anxious-ambivalent attachment n ot consistent in presence

25. Attraction physical appearance

26. STAGES OF FALLING IN LOVE Fisher, 1997 Lust -driven by: sex hormones testosterone estrogen

27. 2. Attraction Love struck phase Neurotransmitters in the brain Dopamine Norepinephrine serotonin

28. 3. Attachment c ouple in love continue with the relationships

29. Theories that Result to Attraction and Liking

30. Rozenberg Quarterly, 2018

31. 1. Transference Effect f eeling of attraction and liking

32. 2. Propinquity Effect Attraction and liking grow Often encounter them

33. 3. Similarity resemblance Ex. social class background r eligious beliefs a ge education

34. 4. reciprocity w hen we like people who like us back

35. 5. Physical Attractiveness physical features

36. 6. Personality Characteristics and Traits e mpathic and socially competent

37. WHY DO WE NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP To fulfill our need to belong

38. Define LOVE. What is love for you?

39. LOVE no single absolute definition l ove is experiential

40. s trong feeling of affection: c oncern (close friendship) c oncern with sexual attraction d evotion or adoration toward God

41. COMPONENTS OF LOVE

42. b y Robert Jeffery Sternberg 1. passion -intense physiological desire for someone

43. 2. Intimacy -share all one’s thoughts and actions with one another

44. 3. Commitment -willingness to stay in good and bad times

45. TYPES OF LOVE Infatuation (Passionate alone) -love that involves obsession with an idealized partner -very unstable

46. 2. Liking (Intimacy alone) -feelings that create the experience of warmth -fondness

47. 3. Empty Love (Commitment alone) -may occur in a long-term, stagnant relationships -marriage held together for convenience ,habit , fear of change or “for children’s sake” -lacks emotional closeness and sexual attraction

48. 4. Fatuous Love (Passion + Commitment) -”love at first sight ” - has no emotional closeness - but dedicate life to each other

49. 5. Romantic Love (Intimacy + passion) -presence of both sexual passion and emotional intimacy -feels when relationship is blossoming -drawn physically to each other -like best friend and enjoy spending time together

50. 6. Companionate Love (Intimacy + Commitment) -love that is stronger than friendship because of the element of long-term commitment -observed in long-term marriages where passion is no longer present -love shared between family members is a deep form of love

51. 7. Consummate love (Intimacy + Passion + Commitment) -complete form of love -representing an ideal relationship toward which people strive -theorized to be that love associated with “perfect couple”

52. TYPES OF INFATUATION 1. Simple Infatuation -often called a “crush” or “puppy love” -commonly strikes those in the early teens or younger -seldom last long

53. 2. Romantic Infatuation -mistaken for “romantic love” -strange mix of lust and emotion

54. WHY PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP IS IMPORTANT Live Longer -can add 3 years to life expectancy

55. b. Deal with Stress -in a study, over 100 people stress people recover fast

56. c. Be healthier -half as likely to catch a common cold

57. d . Feel richer - effects on well being as a 50% increase in income

58. On the other hand…. Depression -loneliness b. Decreased immune function -increase chances of becoming sick

59. c. Higher blood pressure -loneliness could predict higher blood pressure even years later

60. 25 Most Common Relationships Problems Affairs/ infidelity/cheating -includes emotional infidelity -one-night-stand -internet relationship -long and short term affairs and financial infidelity

61. 2. Sexual Issues -questions around your gender

62. 3. Significant differences on core values and beliefs 4. Life stages - “outgrown” each other -“changed”

63. 5. Traumatic and/or life changing events 6. Prolonged period of stress -work-related stress -long term illness -mental health issues -financial problems -problems with children -infertility

64. 7. Bored in or with your relationship 8. jealous 9. “blended” family issues 10. Domestic violence -verbal and physical abuses

65. 11. Knowing you should not have got married in the first place 12. Lack of responsibility -finances -children

66. Unrealistic Expectations -spouse is a princess/knight

67. 14. Addictions -substance abuse 15. Social Media -excessive reliance 16. Lack of support -during difficult times

68. 17. Manipulation -over involvement in your family or friends 18. Lack of communication - important matters

69. 19. Poor division and/or one-sided -lack of responsibility for chores and tasks *not always women who complain about this relationship problems

70. 20. Perceived lack of concern, care and consideration -feeling that the relationship is one-sided 21. Disappointments 22. Long term depression or other mental health 23. Discipline/ deal with children 24. Long-term stress 25. Unsupportive partner during pregnancy