Parenting Strategies for Handling Negative Behavior in Children. pdf.pdf

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1. 10 Effective Parenting Strategies for Handling
Negative Behavior in Children
Dr. Nawar Mani Ramachandran

2. Learning objectives
Understanding the causes and triggers of
negative behaviour in children.
Learning to recognize different types of
negative behaviour.
Knowing the potential long-term
consequences of unaddressed negative
behaviour.

3. The importance of positive discipline techniques and
their effectiveness in managing negative behavior.
Acquiring a toolkit of practical parenting strategies
Enhancing communication skills.
Developing techniques for promoting positive behavior
and reinforcing good habits in children.
Learning objectives

4. Understanding the role of consistency, routines, and boundaries in
managing negative behavior.
Exploring strategies for managing one's own emotions as a parent
when dealing with negative behavior.
Recognizing & creating a nurturing and supportive environment for
children to thrive, and understanding how it can contribute to positive
behavior.
Learning objectives

5. "The louder your child gets
The quieter you should be
The angrier your child becomes
Thje gentler you should become
The meaner your child is
The kinder you should be "

6. Understanding Negative Behavior in Children
What are some of the Negative Behaviours?
Tantrums: Young children
may throw tantrums as a
way of expressing
frustration, anger, or a
desire for control. This can
involve crying, screaming,
and even physical
aggression.

Mengamuk/Menjerit

7. Defiance/Menentang: May exhibit defiant behaviours,
such as refusing to follow instructions, talking back, or
engaging in power struggles.
Impulsivity: May struggle with impulse control, leading to
impulsive behaviors such as interrupting others, acting
without thinking, or engaging in risky activities.
Impulsif: Kanak-kanak mungkin bergelut dengan kawalan impuls, membawa kepada tingkah laku impulsif
seperti mengganggu orang lain, bertindak tanpa berfikir, atau terlibat dalam aktiviti berisiko.

Understanding Negative Behavior in Children
What are some of the Negative Behaviours?

8. Aggression: Some children may display aggressive
behaviours, such as hitting, biting, or pushing others, as a
reaction to frustration.
Withdrawal or avoidance: May exhibit withdrawing or
avoiding social interactions or responsibilities, which can
stem from anxiety, low self-esteem, or other emotional
challenges.


Understanding Negative Behavior in Children
What are some of the Negative Behaviours?

9. Lying: Children may resort to lying as a means of
avoiding punishment or seeking attention or approval.

Oppositional behaviour: Some children may consistently
display oppositional behaviour, constantly challenging
rules and authority figures.


Understanding Negative Behavior in Children
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10. Understanding Negative Behavior in Children
Differentiating between age-appropriate behaviour and
problematic behaviour
Age-appropriate behaviors that are considered normal and
expected for a child based on their developmental stage.
Infants: Crying, babbling,
exploring objects with
their mouth.
Toddlers: Tantrums,
exploring and testing
limits, limited impulse
control.
Preschoolers: Imaginary play,
increased independence,
difficulty sharing.
School-age: Developing
friendships, following rules,
developing empathy.

11. Understanding Negative Behavior in Children
Problematic behaviour
Problematic behaviour refers to interfering with the child's
well-being, social interactions, or daily functioning.
Examples :
Extreme aggression or violence towards others.
Persistent disobedience or defiance.
Excessive fear or anxiety that impacts daily activities.
Extreme withdrawal or isolation from others.
Persistent difficulties in following rules or instructions.

12. Learning positive discipline strategies for addressing negative
behavior effectively helps with Mindful Parenting.
Positive Discipline Techniques
Redirecting children when they are misbehaving
Explaining the logical consequences to them
Explain the Natural consequences as well
Giving positive reinforcement with the positive behaviours
instead of showing more concern on a negative behaviour

13. Learning positive discipline strategies for addressing negative
behavior effectively helps with Mindful Parenting.
Positive Discipline Techniques
Set clear expectations
Use problem-solving techniques
Model appropriate behavior
Time-outs and calm-down corners
Time-in and active listening

14. Communication Skills for Effective Behaviour
Management
Enhancing communication with children to set expectations
and boundaries
Developing active listening skills to better understand the
underlying causes of negative behaviour
Learning techniques for clear and assertive communication
with children

15. Promoting Positive Behavior
Creating a positive and nurturing environment
Implementing rewards and incentives effectively
Use descriptive praise
Create a routine
Provide choices
Teach problem-solving skills
Encourage empathy and kindness
Use positive language
Provide consistent boundaries
Collaborate and involve your child
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16. Managing Parental Emotions
What do you do ?What do you do ?What do you do ?
and How do you do it?and How do you do it?and How do you do it?
FRUSTRATIONSFRUSTRATIONSFRUSTRATIONS
AngerAngerAnger
STRESSSTRESS

17. We are all together as parents in this
situation.
Talk to your friends who also have kids
Share experiences with one another
Seek help if necessary
Many parents these days

18. To recap the 10 Effective Strategies for
Addressing Negative Behavior

Set clear expectations and rules1.
2. Use positive reinforcement
3. Provide consistent consequences
4. Redirect and distract
5. Teach problem-solving skills

19. To recap the 10 Effective Strategies for
Addressing Negative Behavior
6. Use time-outs effectively
7. Model positive behavior
8. Foster open communication
9. Teach empathy and understanding
10. Seek professional support or help if needed