PerDev Personal Relationship-Attraction, Love & Commitment.pptx

Quarter 2 - Competency 2

1. PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP: Attraction, Love & Commitment Personal Development

2. LEARNING COMPETENCIES: Express his/her ways of showing attraction, love, and commitment (EsP-PD11/12PR-2a-9.2)

3. SPECIFIC LEARNING OBJECTIVES: Determine and explain ways of showing attraction, love, and commitment; and Determine the importance of expressing attraction, love and commitment; and Demonstrate acceptable expression of attraction towards your relationship circles.

4. TRUE or FALSE…Y? Directions: Write T if the statement is TRUE, if it is FALSE, write F.

5. TRUE or FALSE…Y? It is important to work on communicating our feelings in relationships.

6. TRUE or FALSE…Y? To love someone, we must love our self-first.

7. TRUE or FALSE…Y? Trying to understand where other people are coming from rather than judging them helps us build and maintain relationships.

8. TRUE or FALSE…Y? Having a good relationship does not contribute anything to us.

9. TRUE or FALSE…Y? When people listen deeply and let us know that they recognize the feeling behind our words, more likely than not, our relationship is doing good.

10. WHO DO YOU THINK? Directions: Below are different expressions of yours toward other people. Now, think of a particular person that first comes in your mind when you feel such expression. Put their name under each face or just write how you are related to them (example: “Jose” or if you want, just “best friend”).

11. WHO DO YOU THINK?

12. PROCESSING QUESTIONS: What do you feel while doing the activity? How do you express your ways of showing attraction, love, and commitment to other people? Do you find it easy or difficult? To whom do you find easy/difficult in expressing your feelings?

13. PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP: Attraction, Love & Commitment

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15. ATTRACTION the action or power of evoking interest, pleasure, or liking for someone or something; and a quality or feature that evokes interest, liking, or desire.

16. INTERPERSONAL ATTRACTION When you have a positive attitude or evaluation regarding a particular person in relation to different components

17. KEY COMPONENTS OF ATTRACTION Physical Attractiveness Similarity Proximity Reciprocity

18. LOVE (a) strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties; (b) attraction based on sexual desire: affection and tenderness felt by lovers; (c) affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests. (d) an assurance of affection

19. COMMITMENT Dr. Rajiv Jhangiani and Dr. Hammond Tarry reiterated the Slotter et al., 2011 that “ commitment refers to the feelings and action that keep partners working together to maintain the relationship ”.

20. Below are some collected ideas on how to exercise expressing affections and developed into a commitment for any kinds of relationship. Stay happy. Happiness gives you the feeling of satisfaction for both abstract and concrete things. Be empathic. Empathizing with another is acting with greater cooperation and overall altruism—the desire to help, even at a potential cost to the self.

21. Below are some collected ideas on how to exercise expressing affections and developed into a commitment for any kinds of relationship. Keep open communication . It provides an opportunity to size up the trustworthiness of a person by verbally committing to cooperate with another. Always trust . Working with others toward a common goal requires a level of faith that others will repay our hard work and generosity. Supporting their interests is also showing your trust.

22. Below are some collected ideas on how to exercise expressing affections and developed into a commitment for any kinds of relationship. Show respect . People are likely to give respect to others by being polite, honest, and by showing kindness all the time. Be a helping hand . In times of trouble (e.g. mentally/ emotionally), make him/her feel that he/she always has you on his/her side.

23. LETTER FROM MOM Pages 64-66

24. LETTER FROM MOM What kind of relationship does the letter describe? Who are involved in the relationship? Describe each character. What roles does each character play in the relationship? Are you satisfied with this type of relationship? Explain your answer.

25. LETTER FROM MOM Do you agree that this type of relationship can be improved? Explain your answer. In what ways can the characters show they are responsible to maintain a good relationship?

26. RESPONSE TO MOM’S LETTER Directions: Put yourself in the shoes of Shane and write a letter in response to Mom. Explain your thoughts, feelings, and actions as a child who is now almost an adult. Bring your letter during the next class session.

27. AS APPRECIATION Directions: Giving something to a person dear to you is a sign of appreciation. This is also counted as expressing affections towards others. The value of an object or thing is measured by its appreciation than its monetary amount.

28. AS APPRECIATION Now, let us show appreciation to others by giving them something that is precious to you. Think at least four (4) objects or things that are very much important to you. Write the name of each object in a 1/8 sheet together with its recipient. After the given time, the students will share their reasons with their selected classmate or if applicable, with the members of your family.

29. COMPLETE ME… I know that. . . I learned. . . I realized. . . My plan. . .

30. ASSESSMENT Directions: Choose the letter of the best answer. Write the chosen letter on a separate sheet of paper.

31. ASSESSMENT Personal Relationship is the ______________. A. choice of a person to be engaged in a certain kind of relationship. B. kind of interaction one makes when dealing in an intimate group of people. C. close connection between the people formed by emotional bonds and interaction. D. type of person’s involvement in the community where he/she grows to be a good individual.

32. ASSESSMENT Romantic Relationship is characterized by ______________. A. happy experiences shared by individuals B. mutual love and respect shared by the couples C. sympathy rendered by individuals towards one another D. sense of belongingness felt by individuals with each other

33. ASSESSMENT What do you call the feelings and action that keep partners working together to maintain a relationship? A. Affection B. Attraction C. Commitment D. Love

34. ASSESSMENT Infatuation comprises ________________. A. Intimacy and Commitment B. Commitment and passion C. Passion only D. Intimacy only

35. ASSESSMENT Infatuation comprises ________________. A. Intimacy and Commitment B. Commitment and passion C. Passion only D. Intimacy only