Theme of women role and society pressure Maggie Tulliver is considered “contrary” by her relatives. Her behavior is often contrasted unfavorably with that of her cousin, Lucy Deane, a model of perfect Victorian femininity. Lucy is sweet, obedient and pretty, all of which are qualities valued in women in Victorian society. While Lucy goes along with the social expectations of her gender, Maggie struggles against the restrictions placed on women’s lives and choices and becomes a social outcast as a result. The contrast between the fates of these two women suggests that Victorian society tends to both idealize women and criticized them socially. In her childhood, Maggie is also constantly reminded of her second-class status. Unlike Tom, she is not given a good education, since her schooling is designed to prepare her to be a wife and mother. When she looks at her brother’s geometry textbook, Tom reminds her that “girls can’t do Euclid,” and his tutor Mr. Stelling remarks that women "couldn't go far into anything.” Yet women in Maggie’s position are unable to forge a separate identity from their family, as illustrated by Mr. Wakem’s comment that “we don’t ask what a woman does—we ask whom she belongs to.” Lacking agency of their own, women’s identities are absorbed into those of their husbands and families. Women often do not go to school, but those women in the rich families have private tutors who teach them music, painting and drawing. But it is not possible for Maggie to go to school. Once when Tom wants to go to school, Maggie is not allowed to go with him. Tom goes to work for a shipping company and begins to make his fortune. Maggie, by contrast, has to remain at home, submit to her circumstances, and wait calmly for a change in her life. When they are children, Tom points out to Maggie that he has more financial power than her by virtue of his gender. “I’ve got a great deal more money than you, because I’m a boy. You only have five-shilling pieces, because you’re only a girl.” This small discrepancy in their allowances as children mirrors the larger financial inequality between them as adults that, in turn, further limits Maggie’s autonomy. Maggie’s inability to “do something” is a constant source of frustration to her, since she feels that it prevents her from helping her family or herself.Maggie faces the full force of social rejection.