MANAGING AND CARING FOR THE SELF
SELF-CARE istheactionthat
individualstakeforthemselves,onbehalf
ofandwithothersinordertodevelop,
protectmaintainandimprovetheirhealth,
wellbeingandwellness.
Why is Self-Care Good for People?
✓Empoweringpeoplewiththeconfidenceandinformation
tolookthemselveswhentheycan
✓Helppreventsillinthelongterm
✓Cantakecareoftheirminorailments
✓Reducingthenumberofconsultationsandenabling
healthpersonneltofocusoncaringforhigherrisk
patients
✓Manageslongtermconditionsandprovidingnew
services
✓Morecosteffectiveuseofstretchedresourcesallows
moneytospentwhereitismostneededandimproved
healthoutcomes.
✓Increasedpersonalresponsibilityaroundhealthcare
STRESSORS AND RESPONSES
WHAT IS STRESS?
➢Stressisthebody’sreactiontoanychangethat
requiresanadjustmentorresponse.Thebodyreacts
tothesechangeswithphysical,mental,andemotional
responses.Stressisanormalpartoflife.Youcan
experiencestressfromyourenvironment,yourbody,
andyourthoughts.Evenpositivelifechangessuchas
apromotion,amortgage,orthebirthofachild
producestress.
SOURCES OF COPING AND STRENGTH
✓Become Aware of your Stressors and Reactions
Beforeyoucanreducenegativeeffectsofstress,youhaveto
findoutwhatcausesyourstressandhowyoucope.Onetool
thatcanhelpismindfulness,whichisapracticeofbecoming
moreawareofwhat’sgoingoninyourbody,mind,andthe
environmentaroundyou.Ratherthanrunningbacktoahabitual
patternoravoidingorobsessing,mindfulnessallowsyouto
simplybepresentandnoticewhat’shappeningrightnow,giving
youthespacetochoosethebestwaytorespond.
STRESS AND THE FILIPINOS: THE
SOCIAL AND CULTURAL DIMENSIONS
OF STRESS
“Sure, Filipinos are resilient but this
doesn’t necessarily mean we don’t
feel stress”
`-Michael L Tan.
HOW DO WE SAY WE’RE STRESSED IN
FILIPINO?
Wedon’thaveawordinanyofourPhilippinelanguagefor
stressandbeingstressed.Butthatdoesn’tmeanweFilipinos
don’teverexperiencestress.
Wefeelitallthetimeandweseeitproducingillnesses,both
physicalandmental,bothfleeting(asinhavingtoruntothe
toilet)andserious,life-threateningones.Becausestress
affectsthebody’simmunesystem,wecansayallailmentsare
inonewayoranotherstress-related,fromasthmatosingaw
(cancersores)tocardiovascularailmentsandeveninfectious
diseases.
HOW DO WE SAY WE’RE STRESSED IN
FILIPINO?
Notenoughbeingdonetounderstatingstressinitslocal
context,yetstressismediatedthroughculture:fromthevery
natureofthestressors,tothewayswerespondtothestress.
Understandingthislocalcontextmighthelpusdevelopmore
culturallyappropriate,andthereforemoreeffective,waysto
dealwithstress.
STRESSORS ARE NOT UNIVERSAL
Forexample,wesay“noise”isstressful,butwhatexactlyis
noise?
Culturally,wehavedifferentthresholdsforthesesounds.
SomepeoplefromadifferentcountryfindthePhilippines
too“noisy”,thejeepneys,thearcadegamesinmalls,even
thewaypeopletalk.Yettheyhavenoproblemstuninginto
hardrockmusicontheiriPods.
FILIPINOS’ WAY OF OVERCOMING
STRESS
Therearepowerdimensionstoallthis,suchas
thosefoundingender.Contrarytostereotypes
aboutwomenbeingmoreexpressive,Filipinasare
actuallymorepronetodealingwithstressful
situationsthroughtiis(endurance)andkimkim
(repression)
Whileit’susualformenhavingagoodtime,
bringingoutthebeerandtoastingtheirproblems
away,whiletheirwomenlookforwaystomake
endsmeet.
FILIPINOS’ WAY OF OVERCOMING
STRESS
Men,too,areexpectedtokeeptheirfeelingsin
check,butmoreoutpfmasculinevaluesof
strengthandstoicism.Menaregenerallynot
allowedtocry,muchlesstogointohysterics;and
thisprobablyhelpstoexplainwhymoremen
sufferfromcardiovasculardisease.
FILIPINOS’ WAY OF EXPRESSING STRESS
ManyFilipinoswillexpresstheirstressbycomplainingaboutrecurring
headachesorabdominalpains,accompaniedbydizziness,nausea,fatigue.
Doctorsusedtodismisstheseasbeingallinthemind,butithasbecome
clearthephysicalpainanddistressmaybequitereal,thatthepent-up
stressisexpressedthroughthebody.
Thesevaguesymptomshavebeenlabeledas“somatizationsyndrome”and
areoftenhardtotreat,partlybecausemedicalprofessionalstillhaven’t
figuredoutthebiologicalprocessesinvolved.Culturally,too,peoplemay
attachlabelsthatdon’tquitereflecttheactualpartofthebodythat’s
affected,aswhentheysaythatthey’resufferingfromnerbyosornerves.
Nerbyosdoesn’tnecessarilymeanbeingnervous;it’softenhypertensionor
highbloodpressure,forexample,andahealthprofessionalorcaregiver
maymisstheproblem.
FILIPINOS’ WAY OF MANAGING
STRESS
Ultimately,stressmanagementisamatterofhelping
peopletorecognizethattheworld,whichseemsso
stressful,canalsobeasourceofjoyandpleasure,
fulfillmentandrenewal.Thetherapiesbeingdangled
aroundaremeantasappetizers,waysofinducingthe
depressedthepersontogarnerenoughstrengthand
couragetore-engagenotjusttheworld,butlifeitself.
TAKING CARE OF THE SELF: THE
NEED FOR SELF CARE AND
COMPASSION
Wesometimesuse“self-care”asaproxyfor“self-
compassion”Butthey’reactuallydifferentconcepts.
Self-compassion is regardingyourself
compassionately.
Self-care,bycontrast,istreatingyourself
compassionately.Thetwotermssound
interchangeable,buttheycontainathinkingversus
doingdistinction.