UTS_L6 cognitive construct & physical self.pptx

Understanding the self

1. Freud’s Psychosexual Stages of Development STAGE AGE EROGENOUS ZONE GRATIFICATION CONFLICT ORAL 0-1 y/o Mouth Eating, biting, thumb sucking, chewing ANAL 2-3 y/o Anus Discharging and retaining bowel movement Toilet training PHALLIC 4-6 y/o Genitals Penis for boys, vagina for girls Oedipus- electra complex LATENCY 7-11 y/o None Directed to same sex, friends, school works, hobbies Social interactions with others GENITAL 12 y/o to adult Genitals Mating Establishing intimate relationship

2. The oral receptive personality is preoccupied with eating/drinking and reduces tension through oral activity such as eating, drinking, smoking, biting nails. The oral aggressive personality is hostile and verbally abusive to others, using mouth-based aggression. The anal retentive personality is stingy, with a compulsive seeking of order and tidiness. The person is generally stubborn and perfectionist. The anal repulsive personality lacks self-control, being generally messy and careless. Oedipus- Electra Complex boys develop a sexual attraction for their mothers (girls for their fathers- electra complex) Engage in an unconscious rivalry with the same sex parent over the opposite sex one.

3. Boys will fear their fathers anger and develop castration anxiety because they are afraid their father will remove their genitals as punishment. Girls develop penis envy and desire to grow a penis like their father’s. The complex is resolved when the child identifies strongly with the same sex parent. Boys take on their fathers characteristics and want to be like him. Girls move from a desire to have a penis to a desire to have a baby.

4. BIRTH ORDER by: Alfred Adler FIRST BORN As the leader of the pact, first born often tend to be; Reliable Conscientious Structured Cautious Controlling Achievers First born absorb in their parents presence, which may explain why they sometimes act like mini-adults. They are diligent and want to be the best at everything they do. They excel at winning the hearts of their elders.

5. MIDDLE CHILD The middle child often feels left out, and a sense of “well, I’m not the eldest. I’m not the youngest. Who am I?” As a result, they became experts at negotiation and compromise. They also tend to lean on their friends, as their parents attention is often focused on the eldest and youngest child. In general, middle children tend to possess the following characteristics; People-pleasers Somewhat rebellious Thrives on friendships Has large social circle Peacemaker

6. LAST BORN Parents are less cautious. ( Hey, the older ones ate the dog’s food and lived!). They also probably have more resources than they did when starting out. Parents are more relaxed, so youngest kids tend to be less rules-oriented, and yet they still get lots of attention. The baby of the family tends to be; Fun-loving Uncomplicated Manipulative Outgoing Attention-seeker Self-centered

7. THEORY PHYSICAL SELF: SHELDON’S SOMATOTYPES by: William Sheldon

8. ECTOMORPHIC BODY TYPE A thin, introverted person with poor social skills. Think of Television’s Steve Urkel or Greg from Diary of a Wimpy Kid or even Sheldon from the Big Bang Theory. These character possess the Ectomorph body type: Narrow hips, shoulders, face, chest Skinny arms and legs High forehead Ectomorphs were thought to have the ff. personality; Socially awkward Self-conscious Introverted and private Artistic Thoughtful

9. ENDOMORPHIC BODY TYPE Soft body Underdeveloped muscles Round shape Over developed digestive system Associated personality traits; Love of food Tolerant Evenness of emotions Love of comfort Sociable Good humored Relaxed Need for affection

10. MESOMORPHIC BODY TYPE Hard muscular body Overly mature appearance Rectangular shaped Thick skin Upright posture Associated personality traits; Adventurous Desire for power and dominance Courageous Indifference to what others, think or want Assertive, bold Zest for physical activity Competitive Love risk and chance

11. THE WISDOM OF YOUR FACE by: Jean Haner

12. Oval-shaped face- generally hospitable and tactful Round-shaped face- friendly, kind hearted and selfless Square-shaped face- witty, analytical and great leaders Heart-shaped face- patient and intuitive by nature Long-shaped face- perfectionist and aggressive Triangle-shaped face- creative, artistic, sensitive and determined Diamond-shaped face- detail-oriented and manipulative Full and thick brows- confident, assertive and goal-oriented Large or highly defined jaws- strong values and firm beliefs