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Ginny’s Community Corner
by Ginny Gibson of Uttoxeter
T
here is something quite wonderful about
walking into a cosy room that is filled with the
warmth of chatting and laughing, add to that a
hot meal and you have the recipe for a perfect occasion.
If you like that idea too, then you will be pleased
to know that every Tuesday between 10am -3pm that
is what you will find at the Community Room,
Uttoxeter Methodist Church, High Street, Uttoxeter
(next door to the chip shop).
I arrived just as lunch was being served, fish and
chips, with peas and Victoria sponge for pudding.
Everyone pays a donation of £2 for the meal and it is
cooked on site, so it is fresh every week.
I joined Margaret, Doreen, Margaret and Cath at
one of 5 tables and we sat and chatted about why this
group, the Warm Spaces/Friendship Group had
become so important to them. Margaret said that since
it started in December she has found that is helps to
save on the heating in her home. They all agreed that it
gets you out of the house and breaks up the day and
they love being in the company of other people chatting
about their week and what they have been up too.
Nice company was a comment that Gwen made
from another table, someone else said, we share tips on
how to get our bills down too. Recently a lady from the
CAB had arrived just as a friend of someone else and
told them all about the discount that the water
company gives if you are of a “certain age” and live on
your own, they are thrilled with the savings and would
never have known if they were sitting in their house on
their own.
Julie Green and some volunteers, who started the
Warm Initiative element of the Friendship group in
December 2022, told me the club itself has been going
for over 40 years and is the only original “widows”
group still going following the collapse of the National
Association of Widows 7 years ago. The name was
changed to Friendship Group and we have never
looked back.
She went on to say, “The first week of the Warm
Initiative we had 3 or 4 people and we share sandwiches
together, now we have over 23 people coming, and we
shop at Iceland to provide the cooked lunch. The
Manager in Iceland knows the group is on a tight
budget and suggests the bargains so that they can feed
everyone. “Julie would like to thank all the staff in
Iceland for their support, especially the manager,
Prince.
Some of the women mentioned a poem that had
been written about the original Friendship group and
asked that I include it, they feel it describes exactly what
the aims for the original group were and this has just
grown to form the group I was visiting that day. The
poem title is “Put an end to loneliness” and I hope after
you read it, that you will leave your home and join them
on Tuesdays, it is a very friendly, supportive and
inclusive group who just love to chat and eat good food
together!.
Put an end to loneliness the Uttoxeter way.
Meeting up with friends day by day
Sharing fun together, tea and coffee too
The only thing that’s missing really is You.
Time spent out on outings,
Holidays as well.
We’ve even been called
The “Uttoxeter Belles”
Noted for our friendships
Noise and humour too.
Coffee mornings can sometimes
Seem like being at the zoo!
Advice and paperwork aplenty
Donations to charity abound
If there’s a really good cause,
Money will be found
Our monthly meeting is the best
It’s content is very varied.
Crafts, talks, games and music.
With chocolate for birthdays (if they are diaried)
The friendship group is seven years old.
A miracle in itself.
Through lock down, went to coffee and cake
Making sure we weren’t left on the shelf.
Seeing people learn to live again is our aim
Overcoming loneliness, especially widowhood, is
our game.
Open to everyone, young and old,
Making sure no one is left out in the cold.
Our numbers are good,
But we could take a few more.
So put your best foot forward
And open that door!
Come and join us!!!
Join our group now! email Julie on
[email protected]
A
n inevitable accompaniment to the passing
years is the loss of loved ones and the loss of
those who we have never met yet who were still
able to have a considerable influence on our lives. Over
recent months, three well known people have died who
were influential in their individual field and touched
the lives of many, myself included. I cannot imagine
that the three of whom I write would have ever been in
the same room or even been included in the same
sentence. I am talking about Vivienne Westwood,
Joseph Ratzinger and Edson Arantes de Nascimento.
None of them were born into money but all died having
reached the pinnacle of their chosen paths in life. All
three have a considerable amount in common.
Vivienne Westwood came from a working class
background but overcame many obstacles and a great
deal of controversy to become a world renowned
designer. I am exactly the right age to remember the
rise and fall of punk. Never a great fan of the Sex Pistols
and the other groups who emerged in the late 1970s, I
did pogo and leap around to the music in my student
days. Vivienne Westwood created the fashions and,
love or loath them, they were unforgettable. Later, Ms.
Westwood (the name that she took when she married
her first husband) gathered accolades for her beautiful,
tailored clothes. Many of these were worn by friends
who gathered at her Memorial Service.
Joseph Ratzinger was born in Germany but became
famous across the world when he became Pope
Benedict XVI in 2005. Here was a character in sharp
contrast to his predecessor Jean Paul II, who was much
loved for his modern approach, having been elected at
the age of 58, which is young in the history of papacy.
A controversial figure in many ways, Benedict was
conservative in his faith and in his views, unwilling to
advocate the changes that many think are needed
within the Catholic Church. Whatever your opinion
may be of the late Pontiff, he refused to bow down to
pressure and adhered fully to his principles. Benedict
caused yet more controversy when he became the first
Pope to retire.
Edson Arantes de Nascimento is known to all as
Pelé. Even those who have no interest whatsoever in
football know the name, given to him as a nickname
when at school. This Brazilian superstar was born into
abject poverty but talent and determination led him to
be known as the greatest footballer in the world. Again
controversial, Pelé married three times and had several
children within, and outside of, these unions. He was a
true ambassador for his sport and rose to be Minister
of Sports within his native country.
Three very different people who rose to fame in
very different ways, each leaving a unique mark in their
respective worlds and in our world as a whole. I love
the idea that they have met again in another world and
are comparing notes. I am convinced that none of them
would do anything differently if they had their time
over again.
My Monthly Musings
by Cecily Cowans of Cheadle