When a Girl Says She's Not Ready For a Relationship

When a girl says she's not ready for a relationship, it can REALLY drive you crazy.

You start doubting yourself...

Is there something I did wrong?

And you start getting worried about losing her to another guy.

Allow this fear to ruin you, and you will get needy and push her away.

Or go through this slide show and learn a CLEAR PLAN of EXACTLY what to do in this situation... so that her attraction for you GOES UP, and not down.

1. When a Girl Says She's Not
Ready For a Relationship
By: Frankie Cola
championsofmen.com
A Clear Plan of EXACTLY What to do When She
Gives You the “Not Ready For a Relationship”
Talk and 1 BIG MISTAKE to Avoid

2. When a girl says she likes you, but isn't
ready for a relationship, it can REALLY
drive you crazy.

3. Her mixed signals eat at your brain like
a parasite, making you anguish about
losing her.

4. You start wondering...
●Is there something I did wrong?
●What is the "move" or "strategy" I
need to DO to get her to want me
as her boyfriend?
●Is there another guy in the picture
who she also likes besides me?

5. If you allow this fear to frustrate you, you'll
get needy and push the girl away.
Her attraction for you will fade and you will
LOSE HER.

6. Or... you can learn how to deal with a girl
who isn't ready to be "official" in a way
that ramps up the attraction she feels for
you and launches the "relationship" to the
next level.

7. Read on to find out how.

8. When a woman isn't ready to be "official"...
most men get smacked in the face with a
curveball.
They feel confused.
It's something they don't have a clear strategy
of how to navigate, so the uncertainty wrecks
them.
Then they freak out, get needy, and the
woman loses attraction.

9. But when you have a clear plan of exactly
what to do... you can move forward with
CERTAINTY.
And you wipe out all the weak, attraction-
killing behaviors you don't want to have.

10. Pay Close Attention:
In the following question and answer
case studies I give you a clear plan of
EXACTLY what to do when a girl says
she's not ready for a relationship.

12. >>>My Comments
Look Juanton, she likes you, but it seems like
you’re pushing too much for an “official”
relationship and she feels SMOTHERED by it.

13. Now here's the tricky part:
Most people will say that to win a girl's heart,
you have to earn it by being really nice, by
giving her lots of attention, by showing her
that you care... blah blah blah.
But I call bullshit on all of that.

14. Yes, you have to "earn" it. Not by smothering her
with attention like every other chump chasing
her... but by raising her attraction level so much
that she fantasizes about being your "official"
girlfriend and starts asking you questions such as
"so... what are we?"
This is exactly what you want.

15. Now, you can create attraction with the
behaviors that you do, but you can also
destroy it.
And when a girl says she's not ready for
a relationship, what she REALLY means
is: "I don't feel enough attraction for you
yet."

16. Chances are, you've been doing attraction-
destroying behaviors that are stopping this
girl from falling in love with you.

17. So before we talk about how to raise
her attraction level, let's first let's talk
about the behaviors that KILL attraction.

18. For one, giving her too much attention
lowers her attraction level, and that
seems to be your problem right now.

19. Juanton, I can tell this girl really likes you, man!
But if you do things like...
●blowing up her phone with texts
●revealing your "feelings" for her
●pummeling her with questions about when she's
ready to be "boyfriend and girlfriend" with you
●constantly asking her what she's doing
●getting worried about other guys she's hanging
out with
...then her attraction for you will PLUMMET
faster than a lead balloon.

20. Now here's something you need to know:
For a woman's attraction to grow for you,
she has to spend time AWAY from you
to sort her feelings out.
And when a girl says she's not ready for a
relationship, then her feelings haven't grown
enough yet to make her desire you as her
boyfriend.

21. And let me tell you, being too available
and texting her 24/7 will not allow her
feelings to grow like that.
Instead, here's exactly what you need
to do...

22. 1. Cut Back on Your Texting
The purpose of texting is to make a date.
Nothing derails your path to attraction like getting
into long text conversations that don't go anywhere.
So use the phone only to send a few texts that
eventually aim for the meet up
Save "getting to know her" for when you are face
to face.
If you waste too much time, the girl's initial
attraction will fade and you will lose your chance.

23. 2. Don’t Bring Up the Label or Status
of Your Relationship, EVER
Relationships, bonding, wanting to know the
meaning of “us”… that’s all feminine energy.
Let HER take care of that
If you are pushing for things to get "official"...
then stop it right now.
Acting like the woman by talking about your
"feelings" and wanting to lock her down as
your girlfriend can lead to a very serious loss
of attraction.
Instead...

24. 3. Only focus on Creating Romantic,
Fun-Filled Opportunities for “Getting
Physical” to Happen
Our tasks as men are very simple: Make fun
dates that lead to sex.
If you properly do this over time, the woman's
attraction level will slowly go up as the weeks
go by.
Once her attraction level gets high enough,
she will fall in love and start asking you
questions about the "relationship label" of
you+her.

25. If you want to learn more about how to create an
intense desire in a woman to chase you to be your
girlfriend, then learn the 4 Horsemen of the Chase
– four things that trigger a girl to chase you
(it's revealed in this video at around the 11th minute mark)

29. >>>My Comments
Hey Cam, great job getting back on the horse
by investing in yourself to become a better
man.
When you love, respect, and invest in yourself
like this... other people will also love, respect,
and invest in you as well.
If you want to get your ex back, doing this puts
you on the right track.

30. She reached out, and this is VERY IMPORTANT.
When a girl reaches out after a long period of no
contact, it means she is missing you and you are
on her mind.
That's why she puts herself in your “orbit”.
Therefore, you should assume she wants to see
you, and you should make a date.
Which you did, so good job.

31. But here's something to keep in mind
if you want to increase your chance
of having sex...
Instead of day-time coffee dates, go for
night dates.
Why? Because you want to create a
romantic fun-filled opportunity for sex to
happen.
Day dates are for friends. Those meet-
ups are more likely to end with a hug.

32. But go for night dates, and you stack
the odds in your favor.
To make it even easier, make the date
venue close to your apartment or
her's.
Logistics Logistics Logistics

33. But BEWARE...
If you start seeing your ex again, you
have to avoid the mistake most guys
do.

34. If she's on the fence on whether to take
you back...
...making this mistake is like swinging a
wrecking ball through your chances of
ever getting her back.

35. What is it?

36. The mistake is to bring up the topic
of "getting back together" and being
“official” again.
Just don't do it!

37. Instead, let HER bring it up.
And she will, if you raise her
attraction level enough.

38. How?
By hanging out, having fun, and hooking
up in a non-needy, non-attached, and no-
pressure manner.
Because once you start asking about her
feelings and wanting to get back together,
that's when you kill the attraction you've
created that you've worked so hard for.

39. Why?
Because this is “feminine” behavior
that reduces her attraction level when
you do it.
You see, getting fearful, talking about your
feelings, emotional bonding…
...these are all things the woman does to
lock you down as her boyfriend.
It's how nature made "Feminine Energy"
out to be.

40. So if you hammer her with questions
about becoming "official" again…
...it is NOT MASCULINE.
It’s more like your inner little girl coming
out.
Which is not attractive at all because it
reduces the “masculine-feminine polarity”
of the interaction.

41. LET’S RECAP:
●Make plans to create a fun-filled, romantic
opportunity for sex to happen...
●Don’t bring up feelings, relationship labels,
or what you did wrong in the past
relationship...
●Let HER be the one to bring up “feelings”,
“getting serious”, and “relationship
labels”...

42. Now, if you're struggling to change your ex's mind…
Here’s a technique that makes your "hard to get"
ex girlfriend CHASE YOU to be her boyfriend again.