Balance between work and home. Family and business balance ,whatever we name it, it is all about,Balancing professional and personal life
Work-family demands/conflict Balancing work-family life Work family interface (conflict and enrichment)Tips for better WLB
Now and then We used to live in joint family. Our traditional Society had defined different roles for male and females.
Men did complicated and physical works
Scenarios have changed now Expanded work area- Multi job- taking many jobs at a time (School, Service, Social work) Long working hours ( 13,14 hours a day) Converting into nuclear family (Husband, wife and child) Women’s Dual career (Employee and housewife)- for self development and better home
stress, have linked with more chances to have diabetes, cardiovascular disease, musculoskeletal disorders.
Warning signs of job stress Headache, lost of appetite Sleep disturbances Difficulty in concentration Short temper, irritations Poor health Job dissatisfaction Low moral, Increased absenteeism, lateness Thinking of quitting the job
Stress Impact Statistics Source: American Psychological Association%
Work Life Balance is related to: Life events Work efficiency Managing self, stress, time and relationship
Whatever we have in lists, there is no doubt that we ultimately want peace and happiness.
Happiness "Never search for happiness in others, it will make you feel alone. Search it in yourself, you will feel happy even when you are left alone."
To understand the deep meaning of life, one needs maturity
Bryan Dyson, former CEO of Coca-Cola work health family self/spirit friends
What do we understand by Work-Life Balance ? How can we differentiate between work and life ?
What are professional and personal life ? boss colleagues, senior and juniors norms, rules and regulations procedures limited working hour paid job love, affections hobby, spirituality Leisure, vacation Unlimited working hour unpaid job
WLB knowing what our priorities are, and what really matters to us. An art of achieving optimum satisfaction from life , by managing self, others, stress and time.
we often complain about not having proper time In fact it’s not about the lack of time, it is the priority that we give them.
Pictures of our Life, where we have "many roles“ as an employee and individual
Can we do justice to our many roles ?
Can we do justice to our many roles ?
at what cost?
In society, we have different Roles and Responsibilities conflict occurs when we are unable to give our "many roles" required times and energy
mitigate the conflict, it is crucial to prioritise and strike a balance between work, home and interest. Does balancing work and family life mean dividing time for them equally 50/50 . It is more likely to giving more priority to any one of them, whether work or home .
Right Balance varies from time to time -today/tomorrow -single/married/unmarried because of different priorities at different times right balance reduces stress
If we can not cope between two important components of life..... Home, where the heart is. Work place, next home to workers/employees If we can not cope between two important components of life.....
they could be both a big stressors Home would be "hell" & workplace would be a "war place" The stressors Work Vs Home What makes us stressed at work ? What makes us stressed at home ?
Work vs Home having to do things you are not interested in too many responsibilities/ too few resources misunderstanding/ miscommunication lack of cooperation/ support attitude issues/ lack of respect partiality/ favouritism lack of knowledge & skills office policy/ social rules time pressure lack of love/ appreciation/ recognition
Lack of boundaries is also a big stressor Q: Can you remember a time when you were not able to say 'No', but in retrospect, should have? What causes this inability? Reasons for inability Respect to senior Fear Not wanting to spoil the relation To get recognition Taking it as challenge To bargain later for benefits
Is our life in balance? Why do Organisations need work-life balance ? Individual Organization -reduce absenteeism -happy person -reduce turn over -more creativeness and team works -increase productivity and job satisfaction -reduce stress levels -improve morale -happy person -positive thinking -improve health -better relationships -motivated
According to the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development’s Better Life Index, Denmark has the best work-life balance of the 20 OECD countries studied. Most employees in Denmark don't work long hours, Only 2% of people in full-time employment work very long hours, whereas 39% in Turkey. Government policies support families with young children, allowing people to balance their work and home life.
Though there are no silver bullet solutions, What can we do to have a better-work life balance? What can the Employer/ Organization do to help the employee with WLB?
On a personal Level: Objectively Analyze Am I spending too much time/ effort/ money on something? What are my boundaries? Can I assert myself where needed? Look into big picture that can help you to see the root cause. Personal Growth How can I build better self-esteem? How can I nurture myself more? mitigate the conflict, it is crucial to prioritise and strike a balance between work, home and interest. 33 Does balancing work and family life mean dividing time for them equally 50/50 ? It is more likely to giving more priority to any one of them, whether work or home . 34 Right Balance varies from time to time -today/tomorrow -single/married/unmarried because of different priorities at different times right balance reduces stress 35 If we can not cope between two important components of life..... Home, where the heart is. Work place, next home to workers/employees If we can not cope between two important components of life.....
Everything moves in a cycle Vicious Circle vs. Positive circle How can I break vicious circles? How can I put myself into positive circles?
To reduce stress Stand by what really matters Be clear about your needs and Value it
Being Generous to self Health is wealth. (as long as your health is with you, the world goes along with you…) Create some special time to relax to minimize stress Know the limit No one is perfect. No one can do everything. If you can, compete. If not, compromise. Be happy with what you have today.
Set boundaries and learn to say no "Being a YES MAN doesn't mean blindly fulfilling everyone's demands Learn to say assertively no, if there is too much in your plate. Saying no to one thing opens the door to saying yes to something else” Share your feelings Worry, but only to the point it helps. Make friends. Share your feelings with them. They could have the solution for your problems.
Be positive Manage your emotions, try to be indifferent in every ups and down Do things that you enjoy. yoga, praying, spirituality Read books, go to cinema, Visit places, fun activities, call friends.
Manage your Emotions Let things go and forget what you couldn't do. Don't worry about the things you can not control. Learn from your mistakes.
To improve relationships Value the people you care Show your love and affection Do not hurt or betray by words and behaviour Take care of senior members at home. Make rapport with good communication and build better interpersonal relation
Helping hands share the load- divide the task at home, work in team at organization, don't let come ego in between ask for and be ready to help. Trust and Delegate Trust others too and let them work on their own. Delegate works (don't get fish for them, teach them how to fish)
Managing Time Be Organized Plan to work and work on plan. Set small, manageable and achievable goals Prioritize your work. Know your weakness and strength Plan and Prepare. Update yourself with knowledge & skill Plan, but do not run your life on a time table.
Understand, time is money Use a work diary,Send yourself remindersCheck lists, set dead lines.don't procrastinateTry to identify your time wasters and avoid it.(social medias, gossiping)
Keep correcting on regular basis try to correct as per need and make work and family life balanced.
From the Organization's Side TimeWorking hoursMaternity /paternity leaveForce leavesAlternate leaveFlexi time, flexi place, part time job
Facility and resources Baby care centrefacility to work with spouseTelecommutingJob rotate, job sharingFree counselingSponsor family events/picnic
The happier you are, the better you can perform.
4 ways to improve your work-life balance Below, we've compiled tips for improving your work-life balance [ 5 ]. You can begin trying out one at a time or implementing a few at once. Remember that finding an approach that works for you is a process and will take time.
. Pause and evaluate Taking time out to understand how the various parts of your life are impacting one another is a necessary step in developing a new work-life integration that serves your needs. Pause and consider your current work-life situation; ask yourself how you feel. Some questions you might reflect on include: Am I spending enough quality time doing what I really want? Am I committing enough time and energy to people or things that are meaningful to me? Do I still feel aligned to my professional or personal goals? Why or why not? Where do I feel the most stuck? What is it about this situation that makes me feel that way? As you think through these complex personal questions, journaling your thoughts and feelings can be a good way to identify the areas you feel need the biggest adjustments. Ultimately, these questions should help you gain greater clarity on your current situation.
. Assess your priorities 2 Once you have a better sense of what you'd like to adjust, you'll want to begin identifying what you want to prioritize. Some questions you might ask yourself include: What really matters to me and am I doing enough of it? Where can I make compromises? Where can’t I? Where have I been making too many compromises? What are some alternative actions I can take to ensure I am devoting enough time and energy to my goals and relationships? Where can I integrate my responsibilities so I honor more than one at the same time?
Establish boundaries Establishing boundaries is a crucial part of time management. And communicating those boundaries will be equally important. If you can no longer respond to emails promptly after hours because you're with your family, your team will need to know. Work boundaries fall into one of three categories—physical, emotional, or time. Start by setting small boundaries and expand from there. Learn more about how to set better boundaries at work .
Time management 3. Now that you know what your priorities are—whether that's spending more time at work to aim for a promotion or cutting back on after-hours emails by establishing boundaries—it's important to figure out how to better manage your time. Review how you currently spend your time and look for ways to adjust your schedule where possible. You can "chunk" your time as a way to focus on one area at a time, or use a matrix system to establish your priorities when new tasks pop up unexpectedly. Learn more about how to manage your time to boost your productivity and well-being.
Reflect, refine, repeat Whatever actions you decide are needed to create a good work-life balance, though, you should be conscious of the fact that you will likely need to continue to refine it over time. Big life changes can take time, so reflecting on your approach and refining it periodically will likely be integral parts of the process.