Habit – 2 Begin with the End in Mind Mr.Narendra Jaiswal
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People 1. Be Proactive 2. Begin with the End in Mind 3. Put First Things First 4. Think Win-Win 5. Seek First to Understand, Than to be Understood 6. Synergize 7. Sharpen the Saw
Principles of Personal leadership The Funeral Question: Imagine its your funeral! What would you like a speaker to say about you and your life? Reflect individually and write it down.
What it means to begin with the end in mind Begin with an image of the end of your life. It’s your framework, boundary or point of reference If you know where you are going helps to understand where you are today. Sometimes Doctors lawyers. CEO’s & IT specialists get consumed working hard forgetting the most important things to them.
All things are Created twice House construction Mental creation Physical creation Successful Business Product or service Organize strategically Most endeavors that fail, fail with the first creation Measure twice, cut once
Design or Default There is a first creation to every part of our lives. From our past, or from one of the social dependencies We are either the second creation of our own proactive creation, or we are the second creation of other people's agendas , of circumstances, or of past habits.
Leadership and Management – The 2 creations Habit 2 is based on principles of personal leadership: leadership is the first creation Management is the second creation leadership is doing the right things . Management is doing things right
Personal Mission Statement (Constitution) The most effective way to begin with the end in mind is to develop a personal mission statement. A Personal Mission Statement focuses on: Character – what you want to be Contributions/achievements – to do Values or principals Exercise: Come up with a personal vision statement and 5 attributes to your personal mission statement.
Example of Personal Mission Statement पहले घर पर सफल बनो ईश्वर की मदद चाहो और उसके योग्य बनो ईमानदारी का कभी समझौता मत करो जो लोग शामिल हैं उन्हें याद रखो निर्णय लेने से पहले दोनों पक्षों को सुनो दूसरों की सलाह लो निष्कपट परंतु निर्णायक बनो हर साल एक नई योग्यता सीखो कल के काम की योजना आज बनाओ इंतजार करते समय आगे बढ़ो सकारात्मक नजरिया बनाए रखो हास्य बोध बनाए रखो स्वयं को और अपने कार्य को व्यवस्थित रखो जितना बोलो उससे दुगना सुनो अपनी सभी योग्यताओं और प्रयासों को काम पर केंद्रित करो अगले काम या प्रमोशन के बारे में चिंता मत करो
Logotherapy Interestingly, Victor Frankl’s experiences in Nazi concentration camps gave rise to the philosophy of Logotherapy. Many so called mental and emotional illnesses are symptoms of meaninglessness. Logotherapy eliminates this by helping individuals to find his/her meaning on life
At the Center Principles
Alternative Centres Spouse centeredness Family centeredness Money centeredness Work centeredness Pleasure centeredness Friend/enemy centeredness Church centeredness Self centeredness
Exercise In groups from the previous list determine which centre's are good and which are not so good. Rank between 1 to 5 each centredness. 1 being poor and 5 excellent.
A Principle Centre Our lives need to be centered on correct principles -- deep, fundamental truths, classic truths, generic common denominators. As a principle centered person, you try to stand apart from the emotions of situations and from other factors to evaluate options . Exercise Write a mission statement for your life or a business