Managing temper tantrums of the toddler .pptx

Temper tantrums in the young child is a common and perplexing problem for which parents often consult a Pediatrician . It can be very frustrating for the parents to see their child throw a temper tantrum and not being able to help them . Besides feeling helpless , these tantrums may induce feelings of anger and negativity in the parents which only worsens matters .
This presentation talks about the what , why and how to mange temper tantrums in the child

1. TEMPER TANTRUMS

2. What is a temper tantrum? An abnormal behavioral response to extreme anger and frustration in the developing child

3. All children get angry, some may throw a tantrum Hunger, fatigue and illness may aggravate

4. How do you recognize a temper tantrum? Excessive Crying Screaming Rolling on the floor Hurling things Banging head Banging Limbs Biting, etc.

5. Common age group : 1-3 years Disappear by 5 yrs of age Episodes last 3 to 5 mins But may be distressing to watch

6. Why does a child throw a temper tantrum? Desire to assert independence Attention seeking from parents Manipulate a situation to get what he/she wants

7. So how do we manage?

8. First and foremost… …REMAIN CALM!!

9. Will hitting the child help? Attention seeking and manipulation subconscious Hitting, yelling or screaming are a strict NO Doing this may be counterproductive

10. Should you give in to all demands? Definitely NOT Only reinforces wrong behavior Child learns the exact opposite of what we want them to learn

11. So, what should be the parenting strategy during a temper tantrum?

12. Praise them for their efforts at controlling their anger Temper tantrums take place only when there is an audience So, leave the room quietly giving them a ‘timeout’ (ensure safety of the child) But continue to observe the child without their knowledge Mostly the tantrum will subside gradually in a few minutes After they are calm, give them unconditional love and tender loving care

13. Some things to remember Don’t feel guilty: You are not a bad parent Condemn the tantrum, not the child Toddlers too have self esteem; Respect it Not reflective of subsequent adulthood personality

14. Is it possible to prevent a temper tantrum? Recognize the triggers: Hunger, fatigue, crankiness Try to mitigate these on priority Trigger moment may get averted

15. Should you seek medical attention?

16. Iron deficiency may coexist: needs to be treated Any underlying illness needs to be ruled out Red flag signs: - Persistence beyond 5 yrs - Occurring several times a day - Lasting more than 15 mins each time - Bad mood in between the tantrums - Injures to self or others

17. Summing Up…

18. Normal developmental problem of toddlers Child grows out of it as he/she gets older Management involves a patient and a balanced approach

19. THANK YOU