Sphere of Relationship: I-WE-GOD, In between Generation Gap(s)

Human Resource Lifeskill training session for young IT Professionals using Catholic Catechism on Virtues and Vices traversing psychology and project management .

1. Sphere of Relationship I – WE - GOD BOSCO ITS, 08-10-2022 Life Skill Sessions

2. Society In between Generation Gap(s)

3. Social Generation Theory

4. Action Item - 1 Know your Generation and Others’ world war 1, world war 2, korean war, vietnam war, cold war, Web 1.0, Web 2.0, war on terror

5. Micro-Perspectives I: My Self WE: Others and My Self GOD: God, Everything and My Self An input in 11th standard (Tamil formative education)

6. Christian Psychology: What I am? I am made up of… BODY SOUL : ( Memory ) + ( Understanding ) + ( Will ) and SPIRIT ( Life itself ) <My Identity: Body + Soul + Spirit>

7. Body & Soul gets Corrupt… We help corrupting one’s own and others’ Soul… ( memory, understanding, will ) Through Relational, Social, Scientific, Media, Money Influences… For example… >>

8. Relation to Self (our small “ i ”) What is that TENSION or Hatred? ( கடுப்பு “ Kaduppu ”) I t could mean only these… Pride , Laziness , Gluttony , Lust , Avarice , Envy and Anger From c ontrary Moods, Emotions, Feelings, Passions… Called Vices. And Vices are…

9. Anger / Wrath

10. Envy

11. Pride

12. Lust

13. Gluttony

14. Avarice / Greed

15. Laziness

16. Vicious Vice Circle… Virtues puts-off We are caught in Vice World Click on image>

17. Rather, I can choose to be … OUR REAL WANTS

18. Our small “ i ” of Vices vs Virtues Vice (not wanted) Virtue (wanted) Lust காமம் / இச்சை Chastity கற்பு Gluttony பேருண்டி Temperance தன்னடக்கம் Greed பேராசை Charity  (or  Generosity ) பிறர் சிநேகம் / தாராள மனப்பான்மை Sloth சோம்பல் / மந்தம் Diligence சுறுசுறுப்பு Wrath வெகுளி / கோபம் Patience பொறுமை / சாந்தம் Envy பொறாமை Gratitude  (or  Kindness ) பரிவு Pride கர்வம் / இறுமாப்பு / செருக்கு / அகங்காரம் Humility தாழ்ச்சி https:// www.catholictamil.com OUR REAL WANTS

19. Greater “I” – Cardinal Virtues Faith - பற்றுறுதி / விசுவாசம் Hope - நம்பிக்கை Love - அன்பு Gifts of the Holy Spirit (inner strength) Wisdom - ஞானம் Understanding - புத்தி / அறிவாற்றல் K nowledge – அறிவு Counsel – விமரிசை Fortitude – திடம் Piety – பக்தி Fear of God - தெய்வபயம் OUR REAL NEEDS Putting illustratively….

20. Wisdom

21. Understanding

22. Knowledge

23. Counsel

24. Fortitude

25. Piety

26. Fear of God

27. The Other Way Me as “Consciousness”

28. Psychoanalysts began thus…

29. Got into Complexities…

30. Personality is Inner Dialog

31. Computational Psychology? No Need.. No need for “behavioral therapies” Complex schematic understanding of Personalities – PERSONA Theorems of Emotions / Feelings / Actions Scientific Astrology – Human Forecasts New Age Motivational Powers… 17 th Century people (of Enlightenment Era ) followed on these “Spirituality” i.e. Psychology. Say No to… Cognitive Psychology too.

32. The WE “Others” and “Me” Everything begins with WE. Including Vices & Virtues Needs & Fulfilments

33. Meta-Perspectives “I” – the “Me” in three forms of Living Family Community Society Church - Communion (of living and dead)

34. Sphere of Relationship Me, Family, Community and Society / Church ( to a catholic, Church is The Society ) “Not a sphere of selfishness ” (e.g. Business Community, Moneyed Family, Political Gang) “Not a sphere of exclusivism ” (e.g. religion, caste, race, color, economic class, culture) “Not sphere of scientific abstracts ” (e.g. “Generation Alpha)”

35. Families – Personal Co-existence basis of marriage Monogamous - a man married only one woman at a time Polygamous - a man marries many women & vice versa basis of authority Matriarchal - mother is considered the head of the family Patriarchal - head of a family is a male basis of structure Nuclear - there lives a husband along with his wife and children Extended - grandparents, parents, and children living together Source: https :// www.sociologygroup.com/family-types

36. Communities – Social Co-existence Common binders – shared… Interest Actions Place Practice Circumstance Source: https :// www.thelifevirtue.com/types-of-community

37. Community: n number categories Family - Personal Community – Social / Public Place of Work (workplace community) Place of Worship (parish community) Place of Care/Service (professional) Sacred – Secular Divide (Church) in families Patron – Client Divide (Professional / State) in society There are no Sacred Families – failed experiments.

38. Situating Yourself in Society Belongingness To a Family To a Community Neighborhood World… Tells who you can be…

39. We are Known & Not Known

40. Our Knowledge Window…

41. Inner Perspectives Deceive… கண்ணை நம்பாதே உன்னை ஏமாற்றும் நீ காணும் தோற்றம் But, Trusting CCTV/Mobile cameras True Lies பொய் உண்மைகள் Young – Old Woman

42. Wants vs Needs

43. Putting it “Simply”…

44. Urban Population… Human persons are weak and prone to do wrongs leading to evils... Over-populated Society, Culture and Environment… Consumer Economy: Food Items ( inflated) Non-food items ( not inflated)

45. For Example… Knowledge Knowledge Sharing is a key element freedom in service Knowing "Business Values" of service/product… For a proprietor, a thief, a competitor (dynamics - @#$@!!?)

46. Process Community Network and ICT leads to… Master-slave paradigm of past That's human nature . Communism can not overcome Master-Slavery

47. Process Community An Agile Sprint Can be… In Agile Process, there is no distributed roles and delegated responsibilities . Only Product Owner knows business values of an Idea / Requirement / Issue . IT is always of Waterfall Model.

48. Process Community Four to eleven “Scrum Team” becomes… Case for all WORK CULTURE Agile is the dirty face of the organizational hierarchy and control.

49. In short… Free Developer Team will become servile . Militaristic lowest unit in combat field (small group of soldiers, a corporal, a low-grade officer ) Agile Team.

50. In short… Free Developer Team will become servile.

51. Big Population – Gigantic Economy Benefits few…

52. Environment – Hour Glass War on Terror for “Planetary Control” (from Era of Wars) Fuel is IT. Systematized Human Intelligence Melting Glaciers Urbanizations Everybody’s problem

53. Not Salvation.. Personal and Community Babel Tower Supreme Development / Awesome Personalities / Sustainable Destiny

54. Our IT Work Outcomes: Wall-E

55. Destiny of Business Excellences…

56. Destiny Our Modern Humanity is LATE COMERS But We are of Participative Society.

57. God is all Life is our Response to God Life is Footprint of God Life is FROM God - living/good/almighty/unchanging Life’s Destiny is God – “we go back to God”

58. Community for… Humans Education to narrow all divides Empower right persons for right purposes Inclusive and Participatory Culture Technologies Minimalism Realistic Lifestyle Freedom Justice and Peace Care for neighbors

59. Completion I-WE-GOD God’s Wrath is JUSTICE God’s Grace is LOVE in Jesus Do not take God for granted.

60. Our Action Items

61. Recap Me is formed by relationship with Others and God We are known, loved, cared, fulfilled Our humanity is participative Can’t take God for granted Life is to serve in freedom Personal-Global Issues

62. My Follow-up # Action Status 1. Knowing my ge neration 2. Knowing family and community (living and serving) 3. Self-awareness (driven by vices and virtues) 4. What I know of myself and what others know of me… Johari 5. What is my Self-actualizations (Vision-Mission in life) 6. Contribution to workplace – Process community 7. Participation in Global Issues (climate crisis, inequality, divides, violence) 8. Acts of Mercy (Psychological-spiritual; physiological-corporal)

63. After Thoughts

64. Thank You © 2022 BOSCO INFOTECH SERVICES Don Bosco Center, Guezou Nagar Athanavur , Yelagiri Hills, Tirupattur District Tamil Nadu 635853, INDIA Prepared by James VM ( [email protected] )