Thomas Kuriakose, MD_ Why Emotional Intelligence Is Every Great Teacher’s Secret Weapon.pdf

Great teachers know that learning doesn’t happen in a vacuum but through relationships. Emotional intelligence allows educators to sense when a student feels discouraged, anxious, or unmotivated and respond with empathy instead of frustration. This awareness helps students feel understood and valued, boosting engagement and motivation. When students know their teacher genuinely cares, they are more willing to participate, ask questions, and persevere through difficulties.

1. Thomas Kuriakose, MD: Why
Emotional Intelligence Is Every Great
Teacher’s Secret Weapon

Thomas Kuriakose, MD noted that behind every great teacher lies a skill more powerful than
lesson plans or advanced degrees—emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence, or EI,
recognizes, understands, and manages emotions effectively. This soft skill becomes a secret
weapon in the classroom, enabling teachers to connect with students, handle challenges
gracefully, and create environments where everyone can succeed.

2. Great teachers know that learning doesn’t happen in a vacuum but through relationships.
Emotional intelligence allows educators to sense when a student feels discouraged, anxious, or
unmotivated and respond with empathy instead of frustration. This awareness helps students
feel understood and valued, boosting engagement and motivation. When students know their
teacher genuinely cares, they are more willing to participate, ask questions, and persevere
through difficulties.

EI also empowers teachers to manage their emotions, especially during stressful moments.
Whether facing disruptive behavior, time pressure, or conflicting demands, emotionally
intelligent teachers stay calm and composed. Instead of reacting impulsively, they pause, reflect,
and choose a response that maintains respect and control. This self-regulation sets a powerful
example for students, teaching them how to handle emotions constructively—an essential life
skill.

Communication is another area where emotional intelligence shines. Teachers who listen
actively, speak with kindness, and show patience foster trust and collaboration. They can adapt
their communication style to fit different personalities, helping each student feel heard and
understood. This emotional connection makes lessons more meaningful and the classroom
more harmonious.

Beyond academics, emotional intelligence helps teachers build inclusive and supportive
communities. It encourages a culture of empathy and respect where students learn to
appreciate diversity and work together. The result is a classroom that nurtures academic growth
and emotional maturity.
Ultimately, emotional intelligence transforms good teachers into great ones. It bridges the gap
between knowledge and understanding, authority and compassion. In a world where education
is about shaping both minds and hearts, emotional intelligence truly is every great teacher’s
secret weapon—one that leaves a lasting impact long after the school year ends.